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LET’S
MOTIVATE!
YOUR DO
ANYWHERE
WORKOUT
JENNIFER
LOPEZ
“I’M FACING MY
FEARS & WORKING
ON MYSELF.”
IT’S
LOVE
YOUR
BODY!
2015
IDEAS TO
LIVE HAPPY
AND FEEL
AMAZING
INSIDE+OUT
“I WANT TO
PROVE I’M A
SUPERWOMAN,
BUT I HAVE
TO TAKE CARE
OF MYSELF.”
( JAN ) C ON T E N T S
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62 Jennifer Lopez:
Her Leap Year
The megastar gears
up for 2015 with
two new movies and
a fresh outlook.
68 Anne V’s Heli-Hike
Adventure
The top model
explores the Colorado
Rockies in the latest
outdoorsy looks.
92 The Power of
Beauty
As writer Tatiana
Boncompagni learned,
something as simple
as changing your
haircolor can change
your life.
74 Block Party
New on the street:
cool color blocking
on everything
from chunk heels
to clutches.
78 On Top of
Her Game
Tennis star Caroline
Wozniacki shares
her secrets for staying
strong on and off
the court.
84
84 Make Time for
What Matters
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JANUARY 2015
What if you could find
more hours in every
day? Our six-step plan
can help make that
dream a reality.
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FEATURES
28 4 Steps to a
Gorgeous 2015
Look and feel amazing
with flawless skin,
shiny hair and more.
32 Warming Trend
The season’s hottest
beauty products
are desert-inspired.
14 SELF MOTIVATE
13 Get in Gear
How shopping smart
can boost happiness
14 Health News
The latest plant waters;
an update on bras and
breast cancer
A new balletinspired class with
an antigravity twist
36 Trainer to Go
A fast, feel-the-burn
workout for busy days
40
16 SELF Approved
21 Which Is Better…
How food affects your
mood
SELF IMAGE
56 Culture Club
Top TV, movies and
more to kick off 2015
22 Long and Lean
Clothes that help
create this flattering
silhouette
58 Learning Curve
24 The Find
Sexy black-and-white
heels with a sporty edge
26 Up & Out
What’s on Vanessa
Packer’s and Nicole
Berrie’s A.M. agendas
40 On the Right
Track
The best trackers for
your sport
42 Gym Bag
Our yoga-class picks
30
44 Fitness Quickie
Three moves guaranteed
to build muscle
48 Turnips, 3 Ways
Recipes for the savory
yet sweet root vegetable
50 Eat Clean
Tasty dishes to start
your year off right
JANUARY 2015
53 Make Someone
Smile
54 Report
Exercising when sore
or taking a rest day?
SELF
SELF WORTH
The surprising science
behind compliments
Best gyms in the nation
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54
Leslie Schapira
learns how
failure can lead
to unexpected
happiness.
60 SELF Made
Four women in the
business of turning
the world into a
healthier place
SELF INDULGE
97 Veg Out!
Recipes that make it
easy to eat your veggies
IN EVERY ISSUE
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10 Editor’s Letter
101 Get-It Guide
102 Why I…
ON THE COVER
Photographed by Alexi Lubomirski
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In addition to being more like
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I want to learn to like running...
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E D I T O R’S L E T T E R
Each year, I start off with so much ambition: I’m going to learn a new skill,
conquer a fear, pursue a passion. And then, by February 1, my resolve
begins to fade. I usually think I’ve just lost my motivation, but what if it’s
more an issue of time management than willpower? After all, each of us
is so busy scrambling to get through our to-do lists that we don’t physically
have time to do the things that mean the most to us.
This year, SELF is committed to setting you up for success. In our Make
Time for What Matters package (page 84), we’ve created a simple, six-step
program to clear the time for whatever it is you want to accomplish, whether
it’s taking a new yoga class or tackling a big life decision. We’ve also
created a 21-day online Time Makeover program to help you stay on track—
sign up at Self.com/go/timemakeover, and be sure to share the moments
you’ve made time for, big and small, on Instagram with the hashtag
#TimeForMyself. That way, we can all inspire and cheer one another on.
There’s no one who packs more into a day than our cover star, Jennifer
Lopez (page 62). You know what her goal for this year is? Taking a step
back and focusing inward. #GoodEnoughForJennifer #GoodEnoughForMe
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What the SELF
staff really want
to do in 2015
1
“Travel more—my
goal is to take one solo
trip and one trip to
someplace brand-new.”
—Suzanne D’Amato,
executive editor
2
“Run a half marathon.
I usually would say
‘marathon,’ but I’m being
realistic this year.”
—Maureen Dempsey, site director
3
“Get out of my cooking
rut. I’m going to try
one new recipe a week
and tweet about it
to stay accountable.”
—Tatiana Boncompagni,
lifestyle director
4
“Read more. It’s the
least I can do for my
brain after the amount
of Netflix bingeing
I did last year!”
—Devin Tomb, senior editor
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Yes, you need those cute bike shorts
and gloves—but not for the reason
you think. BY MADELINE BUXTON
Conventional wisdom says money can’t
buy happiness—especially money spent on
material goods—but new research has
identified a loophole. When you purchase
products designed to enrich your
experience of a favorite pastime, such as a
new bike or clip-in shoes for your cycling
hobby, you’ll feel more accomplished
performing the activity and as content as
if you had invested in a life experience, a
study published in The Journal of Consumer
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( SELF ) S TA R T E R
THE NEWEST PLANT
WATERS ARE MADE WITH
ALOE, ARTICHOKE,
CACTUS AND MAPLE.
HEALTH
NEWS
The latest trends and tips
to live better this month
YOU SNOOZE,
YOU WIN!
Need another reason to make
“Get more sleep” your New
Year’s resolution? According
to a study in the journal
Sleep, skimping on shut-eye
increases your odds of getting
sick, leading to more missed
days at the office. Women
who sleep 5 or fewer hours
per night miss about five
more workdays per year due
to illness than those who
get about 7 ½ hours. A big
sleep enemy: electronics. So
skip Candy Crush or a
Netflix binge before bed and
crack open a book instead.
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It’s made from
aloe vera juice and
pulp, plus other
ingredients like
sugar and honey.
Water squeezed
from artichokes,
sweetened with
blue agave
and monk fruit
A combo of
prickly pear cactus
extract with water,
lemon juice and
stevia to sweeten
The most basic
of the bunch, it’s
made from sap
extracted straight
from maple trees.
It’s promoted as
a health
powerhouse,
full of vitamins,
minerals and
essential amino
acids.
The brand says it
has antioxidants,
electrolytes,
vitamins A, E and
C, a range of
B vitamins and
potassium.
This drink claims to
supply electrolytes,
minerals and
flavonoids and is
touted as a way
to cleanse and
detox the body.
The company says
it’s full of vitamins,
antioxidants and
minerals, such as
40 percent of your
daily requirement
for manganese.
Skip. It has 32
grams of sugar per
bottle—that’s more
than a candy bar.
Sip sparingly. It has
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of vitamins and
minerals.
Sip sparingly. It’s 32
calories and low in
minerals, so don’t
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Try it. This sip is
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ARTICHOKE
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ALOE
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BEST GYMS
State-of-the-art equipment, innovative
classes, on-site salons, rooftop lounges
and car washes—if the fitness world
had its own Oscars, we would nominate
these ultra-luxe locales.
220 Fitness
Pure Austin Fitness
Quarry Lake
AUSTIN, TEXAS
Outdoorsy types will find a lot to love about
this gym, which overlooks its own private lake,
encircled by a running trail. When you’re not
strengthening your core in a paddleboard-yoga
class or on the stunning two-story rock-climbing
wall, you can watch the action unfold out of the
gym’s soaring windows or from the cycling and
yoga deck. Next trip, we’ll visit a grocery store with
a staff R.D. for a personalized nutrition session.
Reporting by Jolène Bouchon
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SANTA MONICA, CALIFORNIA
There’s a neighborhood vibe
at 220 Fitness—your boxing
instructor knows as much about
your kitchen remodel as he does
about your one-armed plank. The
no-frills locale packs a surprising
amount into a small space: a
well-equipped gym, a studio for
classes, a boxing program and
indoor/outdoor spaces for weight
lifting, yoga, personal training and
circuit work (how long has it been
since you’ve flipped a 4x4 tire?).
Try Dan’s addictive Strengthen
and Lengthen class (barrelike
moves that you hold for…ever).
Reporting by Molly Creeden
ClubSport Oregon
TIGARD, OREGON
A soaring rock wall with 75
routes greets you at this fitness
powerhouse just outside Portland.
Equally impressive is the highaltitude training studio, where
recreational exercisers and pro
athletes alike improve their speed
and endurance by doing drills in
a low-oxygen room. We geeked
out in the CompuTrainer studio,
where cyclists and triathletes get
high-tech feedback on their effort
and heart rate. There are also
agility ladders, a turf field, a threelane track and a lap pool, plus an
outdoor lounge pool.
Reporting by Lindsey Emery
Concourse
Athletic Club
ATLANTA
We worked up a fierce burn
doing dynamic strength
moves on state-of-the-art
FreeMotion and Cybex circuit
machines under the watchful
eyes of National Academy
of Sports Medicine–certified
Institute of Human
Performance
BOCA RATON, FLORIDA
space. We prayed for mercy
in classes like Fight Club
(kickboxing HIIT) and Pleasure
and Pain (intervals). The extensive
schedule of evening classes
and the social after-work crowd
make it an energizing hangout
after a long day at the office.
Reporting by Meg Lappe
East Bank Club
CHICAGO
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COURTESY OF EAST BANK CLUB. COURTESY OF VIDA FITNESS.
Pure Austin’s
paddleboard-yoga
class is held on the
gym’s private lake.
trainers. But all we really wanted
to do was explore this ritzy,
grown-up playground with
lake views from the floor-toceiling windows. CAC members
strengthen their bodies through
such activities as tennis lessons
on clay courts, pickup games
of squash and racquetball, and
laps in the heated indoor and
outdoor saltwater pools. The grill
upstairs made us feel like we
were at a country-club snack
bar—except with healthy options
like ahi tuna salad.
Reporting by Stephanie Davis Smith
David Barton Gym at
the Limelight
NEW YORK CITY
The edgy fitness mainstay
just opened a studio in a 19thcentury church, with stainedglass windows filtering colorful
sunbeams into the otherwise dim
Welcome to nirvana for fitness
lovers. A sprawling cardio-andstrength area with 450 pieces
of equipment meant we never
had to wait for a turn. And
when the treadmill turned dull,
we opted for loops on the
quarter-mile indoor track. EBC
is adding hot-yoga rooms
alongside its cycling, pilates
and dance classes; there’s also
an indoor driving range, indoor
and outdoor pools, tennis courts
and a turf field for agility drills.
Post-run, we relaxed in the spa
and nap room, though we passed
up the chance to have our car
washed in the on-site parking lot.
Gold’s Gym
MILWAUKEE
Because IHP is a testing site for
the industry’s top fitnessequipment manufacturers, clients
get first crack at cutting-edge
technologies. We worked on our
golf swing with equipment that
measured our power in watts, and
took advantage of the full line of
Kinesis machines (their special
resistance cables allow for greater
range of motion). But IHP also
uses old-school tricks: During one
class, we hit the parking lot for
boot camp drills—like pushing our
trainer’s SUV.
We would’ve been happy just
enjoying the endorphin rush
after our heart-racing, quadsquivering CardioBounce class
(incorporating plyometric drills
on individual trampolines), but
instead, our instructor persuaded
us to do some bonus work in
her core-strengthening class.
Those who prefer solo workouts
to a group vibe will love the
Cardio Cinema, a cavernous,
dark studio filled with ellipticals,
bikes, treadmills and other
calorie-sizzling machines, as
well as a full-size movie screen
featuring newly released films
to keep you going for that extra
mile. (We could definitely get
used to working out alongside
Ben Affleck.)
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VIDA Fitness–U Street
WASHINGTON, D.C.
Yes, you’ll find a full fitnessclass schedule, more than
100 cardio machines and free
weights galore. But it’s the
concierge-style perks that set
this gym apart. After our morning
session on the treadmill, we
handed our damp gym clothes
over to VIDA’s laundry service,
then got a prework blowout at
the in-house salon. Dietitians
are on call should you want a
consultation, and the spa opens
at 9 A.M. for après-workout
rubdowns. Next time, we’ll hit
the rooftop lounge.
The power-pilates room at VIDA
Fitness. Above: Tone your
arms flipping tires on grass turf
at the East Bank Club.
Reporting by Jessica Migala
Equinox Union Street
SAN FRANCISCO
The newest outpost of this popular
chain is housed in a historic 1930s
theater with sweeping views of the
Golden Gate Bridge. Cardio kick
and shockwave classes felt like
a performance (without the stage
fright), as we punched, jabbed
and kicked in the theater’s former
main stage area. (In an homage to
the space’s previous incarnation,
Equinox hosts movie nights once
a month.) Upstairs, power Vinyasa
and barre classes take place
beneath soothing skylights. We left
feeling refreshed after cooling off
with a chilled, eucalyptus-infused
towel and sipping a fresh-pressed
recovery juice from the Earthbar
Café downstairs.
Reporting by Jenna Scatena
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WHICH IS
BETTER…
Doing the
HARDEST
or EASIEST
THING on your
to-do list first?
Working out when you’re
sore or taking the day off?
HIT THE GYM. Though it may seem counterintuitive, exercising with
sore muscles actually speeds recovery, says Pat Davidson, Ph.D.,
director of training methodology at Peak Performance in New York
City. But this is not the time for CrossFit: Opt for gentle workouts
that boost blood flow, like low-intensity cardio or yoga. This will
send restorative oxygen and nutrient-rich blood to your muscles to
encourage healing. That said, if you haven’t taken a rest day in
weeks or are feeling mildly anxious or depressed, take the day off.
These are symptoms of overtraining—and that you need a break.
WHICH IS WORSE...
Going to bed FULL or HUNGRY?
SKIP LATE-NIGHT MEALS. “Having too much food in your belly
when you sleep is not only uncomfortable, it can also cause acid
reflux,” says Rebecca Scott, Ph.D., a sleep specialist and research
assistant professor at NYU School of Medicine in NYC. But hitting
the sack with an empty stomach isn’t a good idea either, since
low blood sugar levels can lead to nighttime awakenings. If your
stomach is rumbling, have a small snack like almonds or yogurt.
The protein will hold you over without disturbing your sleep.
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START WITH THE
TOUGH STUFF.
You may be tempted
to tackle easy projects
in the A.M. for the
instant gratification of
shortening your list,
but that wastes your prime
performance hours, says
Piers Steel, Ph.D., a
professor at the University
of Calgary and an expert
on motivation and
procrastination. “People
have more attention
and focus in the morning,”
he explains. “So tackle
the hard stuff first, while
you’ve got the most
energy to do it.” Since
getting started can be the
toughest part, begin
with a challenging chore
that can be knocked out
quickly. “It’s like diving
into cold water,” says
Steel. “The first few
seconds are horrible, but
once your body heats up,
it’s invigorating.” After
that, momentum will take
over, helping you make
more progress. You’ll have
the satisfaction of crossing
things off your list and end
your day on a high note.
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LONG
AND LEAN
The pant of the season will make your
legs look miles long: What’s not to like?
BY SARA GAYNES LEVY
It’s time to think beyond the skinny jean. Your
new go-to: The updated flare. It’s fitted, versatile
and adds an instant dash of ’70s-inspired cool to
any outfit. Model and street-style star Lily
Kwong, 26, pairs hers with a bright jacket for a
fresh daytime look. “I love that it’s a little
unexpected,” she says. The cut also works well
for night—Kwong dresses up her flares with
a silky black tank and strappy heels. “I’ll take
pants over a dress any day of the week. I stand
taller, stride longer and feel stronger in them.”
PANTS Diane von Furstenberg,
$328; DVF.com JACKET $695;
Coach.com TOP Michael Kors,
$895; 866-709-5677 RING $495;
Tods.com BAG $295; Coach
.com SHOES $1,100; Gucci.com
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PANTS
The Limited
Collection
Inspired by
Scandal, $98;
TheLimited
.com
TANK $168;
CamiNYC.com
JACKET
$1,495;
Araks.com
POLISHED
SEXY
Blue-gray trousers team up with
a boxy bomber and studded
heels for a tailored, retro-inspired
look that’s plenty chic.
Silky
racing-stripe
trousers look
glam and
modern with a
leather tank
and ankle-strap
stilettos.
HEELS $295;
Coach.com
HEELS Alexandre
Birman, $595; Scoop,
631-329-6800
PANTS Cynthia
Rowley, $325;
212-288-1141
SWEATER
STYLING, LINDSEY FRUGIER; HAIR, LAURA DE LEON AT JOE
MANAGEMENT; MAKEUP, JUNKO KIOKA FOR CHANEL; MANICURE, MAKI
SAKAMOTO FOR CHANEL LE VERNIS. STILL LIFES: STUART TYSON.
Just Cavalli,
$1,055;
646-741-4434
How to get the look
CASUAL
Denim flares and a color-block
sweater make a cozy couple;
stacked-heel snake-print
booties read luxe yet laid-back.
BOOTIES
& Other
Stories,
$225;
Stories.com
JEANS
Frame
Denim,
$210; NetA-Porter
.com
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2
3
THE PANTS
THE TOP
THE SHOES
Look for a
mid-rise, and
hem them
so your shoes’
heels are
covered and
the toes peek
out just a
little bit—it’s
ultra-leglengthening.
Create
flattering
proportions
with a top that
isn’t too long
or oversize.
Slim knits,
tanks and
cropped jackets
all balance
flared pants.
Heels are a
must to keep
the line of your
flares clean
and elongated.
Delicate or
chunky pairs
work—just
make sure the
heel is at least
2 inches high.
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Fancy footwork:
Contrast
stitching adds a
little edge to
ladylike sandals.
The bold cutouts
on these suede
heels make them a
sexy sub for booties.
Sophia Webster,
$735; Neiman Marcus
Gianvito Rossi,
$1,020; Neiman
Marcus
THE FIND
SPORTY HEELS
Score more
compliments with
these graphic
spike stilettos.
Aquazzura, $895;
Saks Fifth Avenue
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BY ALEXANDRA ENGLER
A low ankle
strap elongates
your legs; slim
stripes are
a modern call.
$785; Sergio
Rossi.com
Photographed by GREG BROOM
STYLING, DANIA ORTIZ; PEDICURE, RACHEL SHIM FOR MINERAL FUSION; MODEL, LOLA AT PARTS MODELS.
Strappy black-and-white stilettos are a total game changer.
( SELF ) I M AG E
“I’ll take Misty,
my dalmatian,
for a morning
walk and
grab a coffee,”
says Packer.
Bonberi.com cofounders Nicole Berrie and
Vanessa Packer share their A.M. rituals.
“Dance classes call
for a cushiony
shoe,” says Berrie.
SNEAKERS $200;
AsicsAmerica.com
“I scan my body for
tension and breathe
it out,” says Berrie.
New York City–based Berrie and Packer have a lot in common,
including their love of green juices, vintage-looking bath
products and Gwyneth Paltrow (whom they call the “patron
saint” of Bonberi.com, their lifestyle website). But when
it comes to their daily rise-and-shine routines, they differ.
Packer, a former fashion stylist, sets her alarm for 6 A.M.
but hits SNOOZE a few times before taking a steamy 20-minute
shower. She usually works out in the early evening at
ModelFIT, a gym she cofounded, so her mornings are more
laid-back. For Berrie, a former Vanity Fair staffer who
lives across town, the early hours are activity-packed. Upon
waking at 8 A.M., she squeezes in a five-minute meditation
(“the most important part of my day”), downs a double
espresso and then heads to a dance-cardio class. At noon,
the duo meets at a restaurant to work on their site. “If it
has great smoothies and Wi-Fi,” Berrie says, “we’re there.”
“I love BLK
DNM’s
signature
scent,”
says Packer.
“It’s sexy.”
“I always wear crystals,”
says Packer. “I believe
they help you de-stress.”
BRACELET Ippolita.com
PERFUME
$110; BLK
DNM.com
4 things that get them up and out
1
2
3
A COLD RINSE “I do
GOOD INTENTIONS
MAJOR HYDRATION
it during the last minute
of my shower,” says
Packer. “It wakes me up.
After that, I’m good.”
“I look at my Spirit Junkie
app, which gives me
a positive affirmation for
the day,” says Berrie.
“My first hour awake is all
about drinking water,”
says Packer. “It gets my
digestion going.”
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ALLOVER EXFOLIATION
“My ultimate wake-up is
dry brushing my skin,”
says Berrie. “It’s warming
and invigorating.”
“This liquid blush is
a nice shade of pink.
It’s all the makeup
I need,” says Packer.
BLUSH $35;
PerriconeMD.com
CLARKE TOLTON; STYLING, MARINA MUNOZ; HAIR, MARK ANTHONY;
MAKEUP, ALLISON BROOKE; MANICURE, TATYANA MOLOT. STILL
LIFES, FROM TOP: GETTY IMAGES. STUART TYSON. COURTESY OF
IPPOLITA. COURTESY OF BLK DENIM. CHELSEA MCNAMERA.
UP & OUT
“After my workout,
I’ll make a
smoothie with
mixed berries,
kale, banana,
water and
protein powder,”
says Berrie.
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4
STEPS
TO A
GORGEOUS
2015
Yes, you can wake up like this—
just follow our simple plan for the
glowiest skin and glossiest hair.
We all want to look naturally beautiful,
but effortlessly amazing requires, well, a little
effort. That’s where this beauty blueprint
comes in. Dreaming of smooth skin from
head to toe, an ultra-shiny mane, chic nude
nails? Start here—and be ready to collect the
compliments in the months to come.
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1
MAKE SKIN FLAWLESS
THE AT-HOME FIX
THE IN-OFFICE FIX
STYLING, JENNY CAPITAIN; HAIR, LEON GORMAN FOR KEVIN MURPHY; MAKEUP, VALERY GHERMAN
FOR CHANEL ROUGE COCO; MANICURE, HOLLY FALCONE FOR CHANEL LE VERNIS. SMEAR:
ROGER CABELLO. STILL LIFES: JEFFREY WESTBROOK; PROP STYLING, MIAKO KATOH.
THE PROBLEM
It’s the holy grail: a complexion so good, you can skip the foundation.
Address your reasons for covering up, and you’ll be barefaced in no time.
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DULLNESS
REDNESS
UNEVEN SKIN TONE
Dead cells accumulate on
the top layer of skin, which
inhibits your complexion’s
natural ability to reflect light.
Inflammation and irritation
triggered by sensitivity,
overexfoliation or rosacea
can cause chronic redness.
Sun damage, acne
and hormones are
common culprits behind
hyperpigmentation.
EXFOLIATE & HYDRATE
A very light peel boosts
radiance without irritating
skin, says Anne Chapas,
M.D., a dermatologist in New
York City. Try ProX by Olay
Nightly Purifying Micro Peel
($40). Follow with an
ultra-nourishing moisturizer,
like Philosophy Renewed
Hope in a Jar ($47), to plump
skin and smooth fine lines.
SIMPLIFY & CALM
Pare down your routine,
says Debra Jaliman, M.D.,
a dermatologist in NYC.
Switching to a mild cleanser,
like Bliss Fabulous Makeup
Melt Gel-to-Oil cleanser
($28), and cutting out retinols
can reduce irritation. Still
red? Try a calming serum
like SkinCeuticals Redness
Neutralizer ($66).
TREAT & PROTECT
Fade spots gently with
serums containing natural
brighteners like licorice
or arbutin, says celebrity
skin expert Kate Somerville.
Try Cosmedicine Night
Duty Perfected Overnight
Resurfacing Serum ($225),
which uses Vitamin C to
even out skin tone. Prevent
future spots with daily SPF.
A STRONGER PEEL
“A series of in-office glycolic
peels will help renew the skin”
more intensely than at-home
treatments can, says Adam
Geyer, M.D., a dermatologist
in NYC. Prolong the results
by keeping skin hydrated and
protected from the sun.
LIGHT THERAPY
Ask for a combination of IPL
and KTP lasers to wipe out
redness. “These lasers work
by selectively heating and
destroying the hemoglobin
within broken or dilated
blood vessels near the skin’s
surface,” Dr. Chapas says.
A GENTLE LASER
Invest in a series of Clear
and Brilliant laser treatments,
which use fractional energy
to promote skin turnover. “It’s
gradual, has little recovery
time and works to lessen the
appearance of all types of
pigment,” Dr. Chapas says.
TREAT
YOUR BODY
As these innovative products show,
beauty doesn’t end at your face.
It used to be that if you wanted to use
advanced skin-care ingredients on your
body, you’d have to dip into your
face cream. Not anymore. Lancer The
Method: Body Nourish contains a high
concentration of glycolic acid to smooth
skin, Swiss brand Neocutis Bio-Body
uses skin-rejuvenating growth factors
and ESPA’s lightweight TriSerum relies on
omega fatty acids to soften skin. Jergens
BB Protect gives the illusion of perfection
with light-reflecting particles, plus it has
SPF to prevent further damage.
From top: Lancer The Method: Body Nourish, $55;
Neocutis Bio-Body Bio-Restorative Cream, $150;
ESPA Optimal Body TriSerum, $75; Jergens BB
Protect Perfecting Body Cream with Sunscreen, $13
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GET SLEEK STRANDS
Thank the blow-dry-bar boom for the latest crop of hair products, designed
to help you achieve salon-worthy results while protecting hair from
heat-related damage. The silicones in Kenra Platinum Blow-Dry Shampoo
and Conditioner ($24 each) evaporate during styling to cut down on drying
time and increase luminosity, while Kérastase Keratine Thermique ($43)
smooths out frizz with ceramides. Bumble and Bumble All-Style Blow Dry
($30) contains oil-absorbing powders, so it won’t weigh down fine hair.
At Dior’s Resort 2015 show, Guido Palau, a creative consultant for Redken,
spritzed models’ hair before styling with the brand’s Pillow Proof Blow
Dry Express Primer spray ($22), which coats locks to prevent breakage.
Shop everything you’ll need for shiny strands, from shampoos to styling irons,
at Self.com/beauty/hair.
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TRY THE
NEW NUDES
Amid all the statement nails, a nude mani is a fresh alternative. The
key to keeping pale hues modern is layering for custom
results—a technique seen backstage at several spring 2015 shows.
Manicurist Jin Soon Choi used creamy beige over baby pink at
Derek Lam, while at Alexander Wang, manicurist Michelle Saunders
swiped Essie Ridge Filling Base Coat on top of a sheer tan shade.
The best part? You won’t see your exact hue on anyone else.
From left: Formula X Sheer Strength Sheer Nail Color in Energetic, $13; Sally
Hansen Triple Shine Nail Color in Shark Bait, $5; Butter London Nail Lacquer
in High Tea, $15 (available in February); Essie Ridge Filling Base Coat, $9; OPI
Nail Lacquer in Do You Take Lei Away?, $10 (available in February)
Written by Katheryn Erickson, Katie Dickens and Ariba Alvi
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PAUL MAFFI; STYLING, LINDSEY FRUGIER; HAIR, SHIN ARIMA FOR REDKEN; MAKEUP, ASAMI TAGUCHI FOR CHANEL; MANICURE,
ERI HANDA FOR DIOR VERNIS. NAIL POLISH: JEFFREY WESTBROOK; PROP STYLING, MIAKO KATOH. SEE GET-IT GUIDE.
Your DIY blow-dry just got faster, easier and even shinier.
( SELF ) I M AG E
WARMING
TREND
During these chilly months, transport yourself to a warmer
clime with just a visit to the beauty counter. Desertinspired finds are everywhere: Kahina Giving Beauty facial
oil nourishes skin with ingredients derived from prickly
pear cactus. Red clay purifies in Coast to Coast and May
Lindstrom face masks. Byredo Mojave Ghost perfume is
an ode to the delicate desert ghost flower. Makeup in
shimmering sand and terra-cotta shades pays homage to
Arizona’s Painted Desert. Feeling any warmer yet?
Shop every single item
seen here. Download
the SELF Plus app
from the App Store or
Google Play and
hover over this page.
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FROM TOP KAHINA GIVING BEAUTY Prickly Pear Seed Oil, $150
COAST TO COAST Skin Brightening Red Clay Mask, $25 NARS St. Lucia
Illuminating Multiple highlighter, $39 PRITI NYC Nail Polish in Miner’s
Compass, $15 MAY LINDSTROM The Problem Solver correcting mask,
$90, and The Facial Treatment Brush, $30 BYREDO Mojave Ghost eau de
parfum, $145 HOURGLASS Modernist eyeshadow palette in Color Field, $58
Photographed by JEFFREY WESTBROOK
PROP STYLING, MIAKO KATOH.
This winter, the desert is beauty’s hottest
inspiration. BY KATHERYN ERICKSON
( SELF )
M O T I VAT E
DANCING
ON AIR
STYLING, LINDSEY FRUGIER; HAIR, MICHAEL SILVA FOR BUMBLE & BUMBLE; MAKEUP, CYNDLE KOMAROVSKI
FOR TATA HARPER SKINCARE; MODEL, COURTNEY GRAF AT WILHELMINA. SEE GET-IT GUIDE.
Try an antigravity workout
that takes ballet class to a whole
new level. BY SARA ANGLE
First there was aerial yoga. Now there’s AirBarre—Crunch Gym’s
new class, which uses silk hammocks as fitness props in place
of ballet barres. The silks give classgoers an almost weightless
sensation, helping them balance on the balls of their feet, hold
challenging poses and execute real ballet moves, like pirouette twirls
and jeté jumps. Ballet is a great way to build long and lean muscles,
says co-choreographer Lorianne Major, while moving at a slower
pace allows for deeper stretching and greater fat burning. Visit
Crunch.com or AntiGravityFitness.com for locations nationwide.
SPORTS BRA AND PANTS Michi
Photographed by CHRISTIAN HÖGSTEDT
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( SELF ) M O T I VAT E
T RA I N E R T O G O
JACKET
Its light
fleece fabric
and high
neckline will
help you stay
cozy during
windy
workouts.
G:2 Micro
Thermal
Jacket, $170;
2XU.com
HIT THE
ROAD
20-MINUTE
BODY BURN
Brett Hoebel has trained models (Doutzen Kroes and
Karolína Kurková) and busy professionals who don’t
always have hours for the gym. So he draws on his
martial-arts background to create quick, high-intensity
workouts that can be done anywhere, anytime.
YOUR TRAINER Hoebel, creator of the 20-Minute Body DVD series
and upcoming book, developed these capoeira-inspired moves.
YOUR WORKOUT Warm up with 2 minutes of light cardio. Begin each
move in its designated start position (below) and flow through the steps,
in one smooth motion, for 30 seconds. Each move is challenging, so
try it slowly before you start. Rest 30 seconds between each. Do 3 sets.
START [ A ]
Crouched position:
knees bent, back
flat, hands and feet
aligned in a square
TRAINING LOG
Record progress
alongside daily
inspiration and
tips from pro
women runners.
Believe Journal,
$19; Velo
Press.com
GLOVES
This pair is breathable
and reflective, with
smartphone-friendly
finger pads.
Pulse Lite Glove II, $25;
BrooksRunning.com
START [ B ]
Supported sitting
position: knees
bent, feet on floor,
hands by hips, hips
and butt raised
START [ C ]
SNEAKERS
Be visible
at night with the
rechargeable
LED on this
shoe’s tongue.
Mobium Ride
Nightcat Powered
Shoes, $130;
Puma.com
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Squat position:
knees over toes,
back flat, hands
in front of chest
MIKO LIM; STYLING, LINDSEY FRUGIER; HAIR, ELOISE CHEUNG; MAKEUP, AKIKO OWADA; MODEL,
KATIE HOALDRIDGE AT WILHELMINA; STILL LIFES: STUART TYSON; STYLING, PAUL PETZY. SEE GET-IT GUIDE.
Run all season with
gear that keeps you
warm and motivated.
T RA I N E R T O G O
1
Works butt, thighs
Start in position A. Hop
forward as you rise into
a low squat, hands in
front of chest (as shown).
Reverse move to
return to start. Repeat.
3
MIKO LIM; STYLING, LINDSEY FRUGIER; HAIR, ELOISE CHEUNG FOR PHYTO PARIS;
MAKEUP, AKIKO OWADA; MODEL, KATIE HOALDRIDGE AT WILHELMINA.
2
CAPOEIRA HOP
5
DUCK AND
ESCAPE
Works legs, back
Start in position C.
Step left foot across
body, pivoting 90
degrees to the right,
holding squat, feet
parallel, chest close to
thighs. In the same
motion, bring right arm
in front of chest as
left arm reaches back
(as shown). Return
to start. Continue,
alternating sides.
SÃO PAOLO SWEEP
Works abs, inner thighs
Start in position B. Slide hips toward heels. Bring
left arm across body and place hand on floor
by right hip while extending right leg parallel to
floor, foot flexed (as shown). Return to start.
Continue, alternating sides.
WATCH THE WORKOUT Learn how to execute these moves
from Hoebel himself. Download the SELF Plus app from the
App Store or Google Play and hover over this page.
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6
RIO SWIVEL
Works core, triceps, shoulders
Start in position A. Bring right knee
to chest. In one swift motion, lift left
arm and pivot on left foot and right
hand to flip into a supported sitting
position. Extend right leg and bring
left arm to chest (as shown). Lift hips
to flip back over and return to start.
Continue, alternating sides.
CARNAVAL
KICK
Works core, butt
Start in position B.
Lift left arm and leg
off floor. Flip over
by leaning to the right
and pivoting on right
hand and foot, landing
with hands parallel
and left knee at chest.
Extend left leg straight
up with heel toward
ceiling (as shown). Pull
knee into chest and flip
back over. Continue,
alternating sides.
BRAZIL BOOTY LUNGE
Works legs, butt
Start in position C. Step back with left
leg into a low lunge, chest close to thigh.
At the same time, place right hand on
floor outside right foot and bring left hand
in front of chest (as shown). Return to
start. Continue, alternating sides.
( SELF ) M O T I VAT E
ON THE RIGHT TRACK
The newest fitness monitors do more than count steps—they analyze performance, measure
progress and help boost motivation. We found the best for six activities. BY SARA ANGLE
RUNNING
Based on your
morning heart-rate
readings, this
tracker tells you
whether to go
hard or take a day
off, so you can
avoid burnout.
Reign, $200;
JaybirdSport.com
BOOT CAMP
It logs heart rate and
calorie burn 24/7;
switch to exercise
mode to track
workouts, and sync
it to your phone
for caller ID alerts.
Charge HR,
$150; Fitbit.com
HIKING
An accelerometer
counts steps, while
pulse and sweat
sensors measure
effort spent on hills.
(It lets you read texts
on your wrist, too.)
Basis Peak, $200;
MyBasis.com
This flexible band
tracks movement
in all directions,
and its app records
calories burned
during Vinyasa,
Zumba and more.
Flash, $50;
MisfitWearables.com
CYCLING
Sync it with your
bike’s speed sensor,
upload data to
Garmin’s social
network, and get
email and phone
alerts on the go.
Vívosmart, $170;
Garmin.com
SWIMMING
Its goggle clip tracks
open-water routes
and can send an SOS
if you’re in trouble.
Triathletes can log
miles both on land
and in the pool.
THERE’S MORE
Check out
more new
wearable
tech at Self
.com/go/
fashiontech.
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Multisport GPS Watch,
$279; Bia-sport.com
JANUARY 2015
Photographed by EMILIANO GRANADO
STYLING, LINDSEY FRUGIER; HAIR, ELOISE CHEUNG; MAKEUP, JUNKO KIOKA FOR CHANEL; MANICURE,
MAKI SAKAMOTO FOR CHANEL LE VERNIS; SET DESIGN, TODD WIGGINS FOR MARY HOWARD STUDIO.
STILL LIFES: CHELSEA MCNAMARA; PROP STYLING, GINA MARIE. SEE GET-IT GUIDE.
YOGA/DANCE
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3
5
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6
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EVERY
ITEM
on this
page when
you hover
over the
image with
the SELF
Plus App.
Download
it from the
App Store
or Google
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GY M BAG
1 This roomy bag
has a pocket for your
mat, a laptop sleeve
and a makeup pouch.
3 Deepen your
stretch and sharpen
your practice with this
organic cotton belt.
5 This phthalate-free
mat is well padded
(5 millimeters) but is
still light and portable.
Lily Tote, $120;
LoleWomen.com
Raja Yoga Strap, $15;
Prana.com
2 No matter how
much you sweat
during Bikram, this
towel won’t slip.
4 This bra has you
covered with two
layers of performance
fabric and removable
padded cups.
Premium Plum Jam
2-Color Mat, $30;
Gaiam.com
Yogitoes Waterfall
Collection, $64;
Manduka.com
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Prana.com
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7 Refuel after class
with 2 pounds
of organic fruit and
veggies per
cold-pressed bottle.
Lumi Juice, $9 each;
FreshDirect.com
6 You’ll stay cool and
look great in these
sweat-wicking,
ultra-flattering tights.
8 Crafty cutouts
make this foam
block easy to grip
from any angle.
Ebb to Street Pant,
$92; Lululemon.com
Lotus Yoga Grip Block,
$10; Walmart.com
9 Soothe soreness
and loosen tight
muscles with a
warming blend of
sweet basil, lavender
and spearmint oils.
and grime on your
mat without leaving
a slippery residue.
True Relaxation
Muscle Remedy, $48;
HGillermanOrganics
.com
11 Slip on a
breathable
long-sleeved tee
for Savasana
in a chilly studio.
10 This all-natural
coconut and citrus
spritz wipes away dirt
Stirlen Chi Yoga Mat
Spray Bottle, $10;
YogaAccessories.com
Run Your Heart Out
Top, $69; Lucy.com
Photographed by TRAVIS RATHBONE
PROP STYLING, SONIA RENTSCH.
YOGA CLASS
Craving calm after the holidays? Grab these
essentials and find your nearest studio. BY MEG LAPPE
( SELF ) M O T I VAT E
F I T N E SS QU I C K I E
STRONGER
IN 3 MOVES
Add this workout to your routine twice a week to build
more muscle, fast. BY SARA ANGLE
You can tone up in just a few moves when you use the right ones. In a study
in the Journal of Translational Medicine, when exercisers went from an
eight-machine workout to just three, they increased their resting metabolism by
18 percent. The secret? They targeted large muscle groups with heavier
weights and shorter recovery intervals. We modified those moves so you can
get the same benefits with just a set of dumbbells.
TRY IT Choose the heaviest weights you can lift for 6 reps (try for 15 to 25
pounds). Do 6 reps, rest for 20 seconds; then do 2 to 3 more. Rest 20 seconds,
then do a final 2 to 3. Rest 2½ minutes between moves.
1
GOBLET SQUAT Hold one weight with both hands at chest level, elbows down,
feet shoulder-width apart. Squat low so butt is below knees. Return to start.
2
DUMBBELL CHEST PRESS Lie faceup on a bench, a weight in each hand in
line with shoulders, palms facing toes. Press arms straight up. Return to start.
3
BENT-OVER ROW Bend at waist with back flat, arms extended to floor, palms
in. Draw elbows up so dumbbells meet rib cage. Return to start.
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Photographed by EMILIANO GRANADO
STYLING, LINDSEY FRUGIER; HAIR, ELOISE CHEUNG; MAKEUP, JUNKO KIOKA FOR CHANEL; MANICURE, MAKI SAKAMOTO
FOR CHANEL LE VERNIS; SET DESIGN, TODD WIGGINS FOR MARY HOWARD STUDIO. SEE GET-IT GUIDE.
LESS IS MORE
Fewer moves with
heavier weights
can rev up your
metabolism.
FEAST OR
FASHION
FASHION ALL DAY. FOOD ALL NIGHT.
Bon Appétit’s Feast or Fashion celebrates the most acclaimed chefs, restaurants,
and noteworthy names in fashion during New York’s most buzzed about week.
KICKING OFF
the festivities is BA’s Hot 10 Party in honor of America’s Best
New Restaurants, followed by intimate chef and designer dinners at the city’s
chicest venues.
NEW FOR 2014:
Bon Appétit has partnered with I KNOW THE CHEF to provide
on-demand VIP experiences and exclusive access to special Feast or Fashion
menus at hot spots throughout the city.
BAFeastOrFashion.com
( SELF ) M O T I VAT E
MESCLUN LETTUCES
3
PARSLEY
Puree
these
SUNFLOWER
SEEDS
OLIVE OIL
OLIVE OIL
TURNIPS,
3 WAYS
LEMON
JUICE
BACON
PECANS
VEGETABLE
BROTH
POTATO
These fiber-rich root veggies
taste peppery and sweet in
dishes from chef Ben Baker
of Travaasa Experiential
Resort in Austin, Texas.
HONEY
MILK
1
Toss
these
2
Cook
these
BEETS
OLIVE OIL
48
THYME
RED ONION
1 Turnip Soup With
Parsley Pesto
2 Turnip and Beet Gratin
3 Candied Turnip Salad
SERVES 8
SERVES 4
SERVES 4
In a blender, process 1 cup stemmed
parsley, ¼ cup sunflower seeds, 2 tbsp
olive oil, 1 tsp lemon juice, 1 tbsp
vegetable broth and a pinch of salt until
smooth; set aside. In a large saucepan,
boil 2 ½ cups vegetable broth with
2 small turnips (about 8 oz total),
peeled and cut into ½ -inch pieces,
and 1 medium potato, peeled and
cut into ½ -inch pieces. Cook until
soft, about 13 minutes. Puree with
1 cup 2 percent milk. Pour into 4
bowls; swirl each with parsley mixture.
Heat oven to 400°. Wearing rubber
gloves, peel 1 lb beets and 2½ lb
turnips; cut into ¼-inch slices. Coat a
12-inch cast-iron skillet with 1 tbsp olive
oil; arrange beet and turnip slices in a
concentric pattern. In a separate 12-inch
skillet over medium heat, heat 3 tbsp
olive oil; add 1 medium red onion,
chopped, and 1 tbsp stemmed thyme.
Cook, stirring occasionally, 5 minutes.
Stir in 1 cup orange juice, 1 tsp salt and
¼ tsp pepper; drizzle over vegetables.
Cover skillet with foil and bake 1 hour.
Uncover and bake 20 minutes more.
In a medium saucepan, add 1½ cups
turnips, peeled and diced into 1∕3 -inch
pieces, to boiling water; cook until
crisp-tender, about 7 minutes. Drain, return
to pan and add 2 tbsp honey. Cook, stirring
frequently, about 7 minutes; set aside. In
a large, dry skillet, toast ½ cup chopped
pecans. Remove nuts and add 3 slices
center-cut bacon; cook until crisp. Remove
and drain on paper towel; crumble when
cooled. Transfer bacon drippings to a large
bowl; whisk in 1 tbsp lemon juice and
1 tbsp olive oil; toss with 4 cups mesclun
lettuce, turnips, pecans and bacon.
NUTRITION INFO 231 calories per serving, 12 g fat
(2 g saturated), 26 g carbs, 4 g fiber, 6 g protein
NUTRITION INFO 146 calories per serving, 7 g fat
(1 g saturated), 20 g carbs, 5 g fiber, 3 g protein
NUTRITION INFO 194 calories per serving, 14 g fat
(2 g saturated), 14 g carbs, 2 g fiber, 3 g protein
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Photographed by ZACH DeSART
FOOD STYLING, CHRIS LANIER AT APOSTROPHE.
ORANGE
JUICE
( SELF ) M O T I VAT E
EAT C L EAN
OFF TO A FRESH START
If you’ve resolved to eat better this year, skip the cleanse and reset your body with these
delicious dishes. RECIPES BY STEPHANIE CLARKE, R.D., AND WILLOW JAROSH, R.D.
Veggie and
Black Bean Frittata
In a small skillet, heat 2 tsp olive oil over
medium heat. Add ¼ cup chopped
onion, ½ cup chopped collard greens
and ¼ cup chopped tomato. Sauté until
veggies begin to soften, about 3 minutes.
In a small bowl, whisk 2 eggs plus 2 egg
whites. Pour egg mixture over vegetables;
add ¼ cup black beans, 1/8 tsp black
pepper and 1/8 tsp kosher salt. Shake
pan to incorporate. Cover and cook
5 minutes or until eggs are set and
cooked through. Top with 1 tbsp salsa.
NUTRITIONAL INFO 342 calories, 19 g fat
(4 g saturated), 18 g carbs, 6 g fiber, 25 g protein
LUNCH
Shrimp With Brown Rice
and Edamame
In a bowl, combine 1 cup cooked brown
rice with ½ cup chopped tomato and
1/3 cup shelled edamame. Set aside. In
a small bowl, toss 3 oz raw shrimp
with 1/8 tsp garlic powder, 1/8 tsp chipotle
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powder and 1/8 tsp kosher salt. In a small
skillet, heat 1 tsp olive oil over medium
heat. Add shrimp and sauté until cooked
through, about 3 minutes. Add shrimp
to brown rice mixture. Whisk together 1 tsp
lime juice, 1 tsp chopped cilantro, 1 tsp
olive oil, ½ tsp honey, ½ tsp minced
garlic, 1/8 tsp salt and 1/8 tsp black pepper.
Toss with shrimp and rice.
NUTRITIONAL INFO 452 calories, 15 g fat
(2 g saturated), 59 g carbs, 7 g fiber, 23 g protein
DINNER
Turkey and Swiss Chard
Italian Soup
In a medium saucepan over medium-high
heat, heat 2 tsp olive oil. Add ¼ cup
chopped onion, ½ cup chopped carrots
and ½ cup chopped red bell pepper.
Sauté until veggies soften slightly, about
4 minutes. Add 4 oz lean white ground
turkey; cook, stirring frequently, until
turkey starts to brown. Add ½ cup lowsodium canned diced tomatoes,
1 cup low-sodium chicken broth and
1 tsp dried herbes de Provence. Bring
to a boil, then reduce to simmer. Add
1 cup chopped Swiss chard, ¼ tsp
kosher salt and 2/3 cup cooked farro.
Simmer 15 minutes or until veggies are
soft. Top with 1 tbsp grated Parmesan.
NUTRITIONAL INFO 511 calories, 23 g fat
(5 g saturated), 62 g carbs, 14 g fiber, 38 g protein
SNACKS
Spicy Popcorn-Cashew Mix
In a medium bowl, toss 2 cups airpopped popcorn with 2 tbsp chopped,
toasted cashews and 1 tsp olive oil.
Season with 1/8 tsp cayenne pepper,
1/8 tsp ground cumin, 1/8 tsp smoked
paprika and ¼ tsp kosher salt.
NUTRITIONAL INFO 163 calories, 9 g fat
(2 g saturated), 19 g carbs, 3 g fiber, 5 g protein
Parsley, Kale
and Banana Smoothie
In a blender, process ¼ cup roughly torn
parsley, ½ cup stemmed kale leaves,
1 frozen banana, ¾ cup unsweetened
almond milk and ½ cup water.
NUTRITIONAL INFO 149 calories, 3 g fat
(0 g saturated), 31 g carbs, 4 g fiber, 4 g protein
Photographed by ANDREW PURCELL
FOOD STYLING, CARRIE PURCELL.
BREAKFAST
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WORT H
MAKE SOMEONE SMILE
We all know that paying someone a compliment can brighten their day.
Now research shows it can do the same for yours. BY SARA ANGLE
When it comes to random acts of kindness, there’s a surprisingly
simple way to maximize the positivity—for both giver and
receiver. Researchers from the University of Houston gave
some subjects the general goal to “make someone happy,”
while another group was tasked with the specific directive
to “make someone smile.” Those with the more specific goal
Illustration by NATHALIE OUEDERNI
reported the highest increase in happiness: Just giving a small
gift, or offering kind words, did the trick. “You’re happier when
you know you’ve met your goal,” says lead study author Melanie
Rudd, Ph.D. “When you’re trying to make someone smile, the
evidence is right there on a person’s face.” So flattery can get
you everywhere, including your own happy place.
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REP O RT
HAPPY
MEALS
What you put in
your stomach may
have a significant
impact on what goes
on in your head.
BY RUTH GRAHAM
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some key bacteria enhance the performance
of mood-lifting neurotransmitters by sending
a signal through the vagus nerve, which runs
between the brain and abdomen.
So will cups of Activia someday replace
Celexa at the pharmacy? Probably not. Ted
Dinan, M.D., the Irish psychiatrist and
researcher who coined the term psychobiotic,
says they will need to be taken in larger quantities than occur naturally in food. That will mean
swallowing pills, not just eating more yogurt.
The kinds of major human experiments
that would make such treatments mainstream
are still in progress. But since natural bacteria
generally cause fewer risky side effects than the
powerful drugs currently used to treat mental
illness, Dr. Dinan says the time frame for getting them to market will be much shorter than
the typical FDA approval process. Meaning,
the psychobiotic revolution may be here in
just a few years.
100
TRILLION
The number of
microorgansims
a healthy
digestive tract
hosts. Their job:
to aid digestion,
boost the
immune system,
manufacture
key nutrients and
consume
bad bacteria.
Photographed by YASU + JUNKO
PROP STYLING, ELIZABETH PRESS.
They say you are what you eat, but exciting
new research suggests otherwise: You feel
what you eat. Scientists are focusing on psychobiotics, a type of bacteria found in certain
foods that can produce and deliver important
chemicals like serotonin to the brain. Their
findings could mean a whole new approach to
treating mental health issues, including
depression and anxiety.
Psychobiotics are a subset of probiotics, bacteria that have made headlines in
the last few years for aiding digestion and
boosting the immune system. Today you can
buy probiotic-rich yogurt, juice and even chocolate bars. Now it appears that some of these
probiotics may also have a meaningful impact
on mood disorders.
The evidence for the power of these psychobiotics is preliminary but promising: In
one study from University College Cork in
Ireland, depressed rats swam more vigorously
and their immune systems improved after
ingesting a particular bacteria, Bifidobacterium
infantis. Human results are scarcer, but a
University of California in Los Angeles study
found that women who ate yogurt with probiotics twice a day for a month showed distinct changes in a part of the brain related
to emotions when scientists examined
them using functional MRI technology.
This increase occurs as a result of the
so-called “brain-gut axis,” the connection
between our brain and the billions of microorganisms that live in our digestive system.
Whereas drugs like Valium reach the brain
through the bloodstream, it’s believed that
( SELF ) WOR T H
There is a solution. It takes
the whole community.
It’s just up to us to care.”
TV
Best New
Restaurant
(Bravo,
January 21)
Love Top Chef?
Then check out
this delicious
competition series,
which hunts for
the most exciting
eatery among
16 newcomers
nationwide.
—Blake Lively
LIVELY
LONGORIA
TV
Music
A Path Appears
(PBS, January 26)
JUDD
INSPIRING
Rixton, Let the Road
(January 6)
Blake Lively, Eva Longoria, Ashley
Judd and other celebs travel with
journalists to poverty-stricken
communities. The uplifting docuseries
aims to foster change through their
volunteering, fund-raising and more.
You may know the U.K.–
based band from their hit
“Me and My Broken Heart.”
Their peppy pop debut is
a great winter pick-me-up.
FEEL-GOOD
CULTURE CLUB
MOVING
Movie
Selma (January 9)
Oprah Winfrey and Brad Pitt
helped produce this emotional film,
based on the real-life challenges
Martin Luther King Jr. and other
civic leaders faced in 1965 as they
fought for civil rights in the South.
THRILLING
TV
Marvel’s Agent Carter
(ABC, January 6)
Agent Peggy Carter (Marvel vet Hayley
Atwell) resumes her secret missions to
protect post–World War II America in this
girl-power series, which picks up right
after Captain America: The First Avenger.
Book
All the Bright
Places (January 6)
Have The Fault in Our
Stars withdrawal?
Pick up this heartrending novel about
a girl who vows
to live with purpose
after bonding with
a boy who plans to
end his own life.
Browse the latest
celebrity news and
trends at Self.com.
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Movie
Mortdecai (January 23)
Johnny Depp stars as a suave
art dealer on the hunt for a
stolen painting in this rollicking
action-comedy. Using his
charms, Depp evades British
MI5, angry Russians and an
international terrorist.
db
TOG
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GETTY IMAGES. COURTESY OF LIONSGATE. COURTESY OF ABC/KELSEY MCNEAL. COVER:
RANDOM HOUSE CHILDREN’S PUBLISHING. BOOK: GETTY IMAGES. CORBIS. GETTY IMAGES.
Whether you want to have an at-home dance party, get lost in a good book or tune in to mile-a-minute
action, this month’s movies, music, books and TV shows have you covered. BY SARA GAYNES LEVY
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LEARNING CU RV E
BREAK OUT OF
THE BUBBLE
For Leslie Schapira, it took losing her dream job as a TV
writer to clear the path for a new kind of success.
Growing up, I was a “winner.” Not that I was particularly special or talented; I just
happened to be part of a generation that, as the stereotype had it, received trophies
for everything from tying our shoes to brushing our teeth. In school, we were promised that as long as we tried, we would succeed. But now that I’ve entered adulthood,
the rules have changed. Job competition and fewer opportunities have made those
instantaneous wins hard to come by. And for the first time, I’ve had to come face-toface with a word that was rarely spoken when I was a kid: failure.
If I had known the obstacles that awaited me in the real world, I wouldn’t have
been so quick to race through college. But I did, believing that if I took the right
classes, made the right grades and got a head start on a writing portfolio, my dreams
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of becoming a TV writer would turn into
reality. I graduated early, networked like
crazy, wrote every night and day, took
random freelance gigs and waited for
any window of opportunity to crack open.
Then, four years later, through the grace
of a godlike mentor, I was invited to join
the writers’ room of a network TV show
in L.A. It was the chance of a lifetime.
Every day at work, I obsessed over my
performance, always sure that I could do
better and avoid even the slightest mishaps. At night, I would go home, replay the
day in my head and think of all the ways I
could improve. Even if I had a good day,
it never felt good enough.
Despite my insecurities, colleagues
reassured me that I was doing well for a
beginner. I was able to contribute a couple
of story ideas, jokes, a decent casting
suggestion. Executives were starting to
learn my name; agents were suddenly
interested. My future was beginning to
Illustration by CIARA PHELAN
look promising. As long as I kept my head
down and tried my best, everything would
continue to move in the right direction.
At least, that’s what I thought.
When budget cuts came at the end
of the season, my blood, sweat and tears
were not enough to keep me on board. I
understood the necessity of the cuts, but
there was still a little voice inside my head
saying, “If they really wanted you, if you
were actually valuable, if you were really
good enough…you’re not that expensive.”
My mentor tried to assure me that
I would have other options. But in an
industry based on momentum and perception, one loss can have a domino
effect. My agent, who just three months
earlier had showered me with adulation,
suddenly didn’t seem so quick to return
my phone calls and emails. A friend who
had wanted to use my script as a basis
for his grad school thesis was no longer
interested. Even though these were small
things, losing my job had unnerved me,
and I started to panic a little, worried I’d
never get back on my feet.
Still, I did my best to maintain relationships with my former coworkers.
There was one in particular, an older,
more experienced writer, who had always
been like a big brother to me. From my
first day on the job, he had taken me under
his wing and coached me on how to pitch
ideas. I always thought I could look to him
in a time of need.
A few weeks into my unemployment,
I emailed him. He agreed to meet for
coffee, and I hoped he would remember
prior offers to introduce me to potentially
helpful contacts. He sat down, and when I
asked for help, offered his advice, which
was unexpected. “You’re so talented, but
you can come across as a little desperate,”
he told me. “Imagine you were on a date
with someone like this. You would never
want to be with this person.”
I sat in the booth, my heart sinking. It
was not an easy thing to hear, but a small
part of me wondered if he might be right.
Had I overreacted to this setback in such
a way that my attitude was now pushing
some people away? Was my intense need
to succeed hurting me rather than helping
me? As crushing as this moment felt, I
realize now that this conversation may
have been one of the most critical turning
points of my life.
Needing a breath of fresh air, I
decided to take a week and go to New
York City, where I set up meetings with
a few contacts on the East Coast. In
college, I had connected with a former
editor in chief of National Lampoon,
who had been starting a political-satire
site called The Final Edition and wanted
to convert my first pilot script into a
Web series. Because I was attending
college on the West Coast, our plans
fell through and we lost touch over the
years. I reached out to him on my trip
to New York and reintroduced the idea
of working together. He was thrilled,
though he warned me that he could not
offer me a paycheck or the structure of
a writers’ room. Still, he did have a team
and a platform to showcase my work.
In the face of what felt like nothing, it
was something.
As I flew back to L.A., all I could think
about was how quickly I could return to
New York. I didn’t know what to make of
this. Until this point, my life had always
been sheltered and I’d followed a linear
path. I lived at home during and after
college, believing that doing so kept me
focused. My parents made everything
easy and comfortable, so I didn’t have
to worry about anything except my own
work. I never went abroad: The thought
of exploring the world seemed like a
waste of time, something to distract me
from my goals. I was also emotionally
dependent on my family. We did everything together, from workouts to nightly
dinners. The thought of ever leaving
them seemed unfathomable.
But that week in New York had opened
my eyes in a way I hadn’t expected. Being
on my own provided a thrill I’d previously experienced only at work, when I’d
contributed a story line or made a script
suggestion that my boss liked. It was the
first time I’d felt good about myself since
losing my job, so I decided to take a risk. I
left my nest and moved across the country
not long after that trip.
I never would have imagined that
without the crutch of my family or a
glamorous job title my confidence would
blossom. But outside of the bubble, I was
forced to leave my comfort zone, establish new relationships and reconnect
with old acquaintances. Now, instead of
staying in every night to work on a script
or (more likely) writhe in frustration
over my lack of inspiration, I make it
a point to get out there—I enjoy the
stranger singing Russian opera on the
subway and sample the sushi at the new
place in my neighborhood. I see every
kind of performance I can, from an
all-star Broadway musical to a friend’s
one-woman show. I even reached out to
my high school crush (something I never
would have done back home), because
he’s a familiar face who also happens to
live three blocks away. While it hasn’t
been the whirlwind romance I fantasized
about at 15, he’s become one of my good
friends and a great introduction to the
city’s hidden gems.
While a part of me—the old me—still
feels a little guilty for enjoying time that
isn’t strictly work-related, I love that I
Failure pushed me
not just to try
harder, but also to
try differently.”
have this multidimensional life that I
didn’t have before. And in a surprising
twist, the energy and stimulation have
actually reinvigorated my creativity: I’m
writing more than ever before. I’ve found
a new comedy team, one that believes in
me and supports my work. With their
help, I’ve even produced my first video.
I’ve always struggled to take pride in
my accomplishments. Maybe it’s because
the praise was so overly saturated when
I was younger, but without that reassurance, it’s been difficult for me to believe
in myself. That’s been the biggest change
in my mind-set since I moved to New
York—my happiness and self-esteem now
come from me. I don’t need to rely on
anyone else.
I’m unsure what the future holds, but
I do know that failure pushed me not just
to try harder, but also to try differently.
It has forced me to grow up, overcome
hardship by standing on my own feet and
find happiness outside of the “work win.”
And the student inside me says I should
get a trophy for that.
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SELF MADE
WOMEN WHO
INSPIRE
Meet four entrepreneurs
who are breaking the
mold in fitness, beauty
and health—and let
their advice supercharge
your career, too.
PAYAL KADAKIA
QUICK PICK-ME-UP
“Butterscotch candies, for those
times when I need a sugar fix”
WORKOUT GO-TO
“I start my morning
with a run. It helps
me plan my day.
And I always take a
few barre classes
each week (using
my ClassPass
membership!).”
BARRE WISDOM
“Dancing has taught
me discipline. The
more you practice
something, the
easier it’ll become.”
SLIPPERS $120;
BalletBeautiful.com
BEST VACATION SPOT
“My cofounder and I
went to Bermuda after
we hit a major company
goal. Confession:
We still worked a lot.”
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The rise of boutique fitness
has brought tons of specialized
workout classes—and some
very pricey memberships. That
is, until Kadakia, 31, came
along and changed everything.
In 2013, the dancer and MIT
grad launched ClassPass, an
online program that allows
users to try hundreds of classes
in their area for just $99 per
month. To date, more than 1
million reservations have been
made. Here, she shares her
success secrets with us.
Don’t fear failure.
Making mistakes
is the best way
to get stronger.”
Cofounder of
ClassPass
WHEN I GET MY BEST IDEAS
“Anytime I’m moving, like running or taking a workout class.
I get bursts of creativity with
bursts of physical activity.”
WHAT I TELL MYSELF
AFTER A TOUGH DAY
“I can fix this. I reason that as
long as I’m smiling 90 percent
of the time, I can handle the
setbacks that occur 10 percent
of the time.”
MY PRODUCTIVITY TRICK
“I schedule ever ything—
laundry, grocery shopping,
even relaxation—because it
helps me compartmentalize
and switch on and off quickly.
When it’s time to recharge, I
don’t feel guilty about it.”
THE BEST ADVICE I EVER GOT
“My father always encouraged
me to embrace change—that
I shouldn’t fight it, because
being adaptable is a strength.”
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ROOT; HAIR, DEREK WILLIAMS AT THE WALL GROUP; MAKEUP, CHRISTY COLEMAN AT THE WALL GROUP. COURTESY OF
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BY DEVIN TOMB AND ERIN BRIED
STYLE SECRET
“The best way to look
fashionable at all times? A
great statement necklace.”
NECKLACE Lizzie Fortunato,
$325; NeimanMarcus.com
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ON FINDING YOUR PASSION
“I tried to pinpoint what I liked
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HOW TO HANDLE REJECTION
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WHAT IT TAKES TO BE THE BOSS
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ASPIRATION
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Founders of Sakara Life
After struggling for years to
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based in New York City. Every
item on their menu is plantbased and made fresh. Their
larger mission: to combat the
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They share their best advice.
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“There have been times when
we disagree—about how a
recipe should be photographed, for example. But if
Whitney clearly feels stronger
about it, I trust her intuition.
Sometimes when people get
emotionally invested, it’s for a
good reason.” —DuBoise
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“Always read your legal documents. Don’t just leave it
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STRENGTH IN
MOTION
“I still consider
myself a dancer
first and foremost,”
Lopez says.
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JENNIFER LOPEZ
HER
LEAP
YEAR
WE’RE CALLING IT: 2015 IS LOPEZ’S
BREAKTHROUGH YEAR. WITH TWO
MOVIES, A NEW TV SHOW AND A FRESH
OUTLOOK ON LIFE, THE MEGASTAR HAS
NEVER FELT—OR LOOKED—BETTER.
BY MOLLY KNIGHT
PHOTOGRAPHED BY ALEXI LUBOMIRSKI
STYLED BY MELISSA VENTOSA MARTIN
Jennifer Lopez yells. She’s standing on top of a riser,
in a warehouse turned rehearsal studio tucked deep
in California’s San Fernando Valley, looking out at
an audience of half a dozen people and holding a
microphone in her hand. From a distance she is all
hair and heels; the softness of her flowing, caramelcolored locks is a perfect foil to her spiky 6-inch
gladiator stilettos, which feature no fewer than two
dozen straps from toe to knee. (She usually performs
in kitten heels, but today she’s test-driving these
bad boys to see if she can move in them.) Otherwise
dressed down in leggings and a cropped white jacket
over a black sports bra, she glides down the stairs to
the center of the floor, her entrance announced by
her band’s drums and trumpets.
For the next hour Lopez is a blur, twisting and
twirling and jumping and shimmying across the
makeshift stage as the music throbs along, her tousled hair flying, obscuring her face except for her
glossy red lips, which alternate between sly smile
and pronounced pout. If her movements are even
slightly hampered by those heels, it is not obvious.
Lopez is rehearsing for a surprise performance
she will give in two days at Vancouver’s We Day, an
annual event that rewards kids who volunteer in
their communities with a daylong festival of speakers
and music acts. After running a few times through a
10-minute medley of some of her greatest hits, she
tosses her jacket aside to reveal abs that seem to defy
the laws of physics and gravity, not least because
they’re on the body of a 45-year-old mother of two.
Since Jennifer Lopez the person evolved into J.Lo the
brand nearly two decades ago, it’s easy to forget that
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she started out as a member of the Fly Girls, the dance
troupe featured on the sketch-comedy show In Living
Color, which also launched the careers of actors
Jim Carrey and Jamie Foxx. Though she’s mostly
thought of as a singer and an actress now, Lopez is
fundamentally an athlete, and she approaches her
life with the same kind of intense kinetic energy that
informs her choreography.
“I still consider myself a dancer first and foremost,” she says. “Well, after being a mother, of
course.” Though Lopez already put in enough
rehearsal time last weekend to need only a light
walk-through tonight, she’s here because she doesn’t
believe in doing anything halfway. She goes hard,
in stilettos, on a Monday night, because that’s
who she is. Between swigs of water, Lopez listens
intently as her 10 dancers, many of whom have been
with her for years, chime in with stage ideas for
the kids’ show, including massive sets of feathers
and dramatic mic tosses, before giving them her
own tips in calm, direct shorthand. “That’s right,
you’ve gotta hit it here,” she says to one of the girls
as she demonstrates a hip twerk. “And let’s get in a
straight line for that last part,” she says to the guys.
The dancers bounce back into place for another go,
smiling because—well, because they get to dance
with Jennifer Lopez for a living.
Lopez is smiling, too, even though it’s been a long
day. Earlier, she filmed an hour-long interview with
Maria Shriver for the Today show. Then she drove for
an hour to attend a taping of Dancing With the Stars, in
support of her close friend, the actress Leah Remini,
who was cohosting. When she is done with her dance
rehearsal, at around 10 P.M., she will head into a studio
to record a few new tracks with Rodney Jerkins, the
prolific producer behind “If You Had My Love,” her
first hit from 16 years ago, and the Destiny’s Child
smash “Say My Name,” among others. In spite of her
hectic schedule, she swears she sleeps eight hours a
night, joking that she’s too boring to be found out on
the town after midnight. “I’m in bed between 11:30 and
12:30 unless I’m pulling an all-nighter or on a night
shoot,” she says, which also might help explain why
her complexion looks even more flawless in person.
It’s a good thing Lopez is catching up on her
rest, because 2015 is going to be a huge year for her.
In addition to her day job as the good-cop judge on
American Idol, Lopez will partner with the folks at
health and fitness company BodyLab to create a new
program for women, complete with recipes, health
tips, smoothies and calorie and exercise trackers;
she’ll star as a police detective who is also a single
mother in the upcoming fall television drama Shades
of Blue; and she’ll release two movies and continue to
make music. All while working on another important
project: herself. “I want to prove to everyone that I
can do everything and be a superwoman,” she says.
“But I have to take time for myself.”
“ENOUGH WITH
THE CLICHÉS
ABOUT WOMEN.
WE CAN DATE
YOUNGER GUYS…
IT’S NO BIG DEAL.”
HANGING TOUGH
“When I face myself,
I go, You have a
fear of really being
on your own. So
that’s what we’re
going to do right
now,” Lopez says.
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“All I have to do is
bank on myself, which
I’m in the business
of doing,” Lopez says.
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“IT’S LIKE I’M IN
TRAINING,” SHE
SAYS OF HER
INTENSE WORKOUTS, “AND I’M
GETTING READY
FOR THE FIGHT.”
The Boy Next Door, one of Lopez’s upcoming films,
opens later this month and is a bit of a passion project
for her. Made on a shoestring (by Hollywood standards) budget of $4 million, the fun, erotic thriller
features Lopez as Claire Peterson, a suburban mom
with a philandering spouse who is seduced into a onenight stand by the 19-year-old heartthrob who lives
next door. Lopez’s character realizes her mistake and
says as much to the boy, played by newcomer Ryan
Guzman. Guzman’s character spends the rest of the
movie doing his best Glenn Close in Fatal Attraction.
When I ask Lopez what drew her to the character
of Claire, her almond-colored eyes widen. “I can
relate,” she says. “I’ve been through divorce. I’ve been
cheated on, just like every other girl in the world. So
you sympathize, you understand the emotions. And
I’ve dated a younger guy once in my life, so I could
definitely understand that part, too—the attraction.”
Lopez is referring to her relationship with Beau
“Casper” Smart, the backup dancer 18 years her junior,
whom she began seeing shortly after she separated
from singer Marc Anthony in 2011. (She and Anthony
are now divorced, and the two share custody of their
6-year-old twins, Max and Emme.)
Lopez and Smart dated for 2½ years before
splitting last June. After that breakup, Lopez says,
she forced herself to examine her lifelong habit of
jumping from one serious relationship to the next.
“That was a pattern I had,” she says. “Never healing
from what had just happened, never giving myself
time, never getting whole.”
It was a pattern that she believes began decades
ago. Lopez was first introduced to Anthony backstage
at a Broadway show in the late ’90s. The two recorded
a duet together and became friends. Then she and
Ben Affleck canceled their wedding just before it was
to take place, in 2003. Anthony showed up on her
doorstep three days later. Within nine months, they
were married in Lopez’s home. (Affleck wed Jennifer
Garner the following summer.)
In her recently released memoir, True Love, Lopez
writes that though she had been married twice before,
Affleck was her first real heartbreak. She turned to
Anthony to help herself get over Affleck, then did
the same with Smart to heal from her divorce from
Anthony. “When you have that much pain, you have
to anesthetize yourself in some ways,” she says of her
high-profile breakups. “People do different things.
Some go out and party and sleep around, but that’s
just not my way. I found the comfort in someone else.
That’s called being a love addict.”
And so for the past six months, Lopez has made
the choice to stay single for the first time in her adult
life, in order to figure out what she wants. This has
involved seeing a therapist (Remini hooked that up),
reading self-improvement books (her favorite is You
Can Heal Your Life by Louise Hay) and experimenting
with meditation. “I’m learning to sit still,” she says.
Lopez realized the importance of recognizing
her limits 3½ years ago, when she was doing a photo
shoot in the desert and had a terrifying anxiety
attack. Her heart raced, she couldn’t breathe and
she thought she was losing her mind. She looked up
at her mother and her longtime manager, Benny
Medina, who were with her on-set, and told them
through tears that she didn’t think she could stay
married to Anthony any longer.
“When I face myself, I go, You have a fear of really
being on your own. So you know what? That’s what
we’re gonna do right now,” she says. “But it took me
years to get there. So first it was learning to love
myself. And then it was about facing my fears.”
Her next step: figuring out how to be happy on
her own. “Why am I not making good choices for
myself?” she says. “Do I need to have someone there
to comfort me, or can I comfort myself? LOPEZ > 100
How does the singer, actress, American Idol judge and businesswoman—not to mention
mother of two—keep all those balls in the air? Lopez shares her secrets.
SHE EXERCISES
“I work out with Tracy
Anderson three to
five times a week. We
do a lot of abs and
legs. I also dance as
often as possible.”
SHE EATS WELL
“I’m very good about
portion control. And even
though I love carbs
and was raised on rice
and beans and pork
and chicken, I don’t eat
that all the time.”
SHE MEDITATES
“I try! It’s hard for me, but
when I get into it, I feel
so much better. You get
that mental clarity,
which makes it easier
to be happy, easier
to make good choices.”
SHE MAKES TIME
FOR HER KIDS
“I love to sit with them
and everyone colors
together. It’s just the
simplest, littlest things.”
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ANNE V’S
HELI-HIKE
ADVENTURE
Top model ANNE V choppers to the peaks of the San Juan Mountains in Colorado
in the latest utility-chic styles—and surveys her own exciting year ahead.
PHOTOGRAPHED BY CHARLIE ENGMAN
STYLED BY MELISSA VENTOSA MARTIN
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ROCKY ROAD
Simple pieces with cool
hardware are functional
yet fashionable—great for
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streets. “You don’t have
to choose between
being active and looking
good,” Anne Vyalitsyna says.
PARKA Love Moschino, $710
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PANTS Peter Som, $745
SUNGLASSES Carrera, $149
BELT Prabal Gurung for
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Red Wing Heritage, $310
“IN THE VERY PEAKS
OF THE MOUNTAINS,
IT’S WINDY,
IT’S SLIPPERY, IT’S
SNOWING. BUT
IT’S STUNNING—AND
SO WORTH IT.”
NEW HEIGHTS
With a rugged camel
vest and all-terrain
boots, a V-neck sweater
and shorts are ready
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to hike where no one
goes so that I can
really challenge myself,”
Vyalitsyna says.
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ANNE V...
is on top of the world—in more ways
than one. Capping what could be called
a pinnacle year in her career, the model
summited the San Juan Mountains,
battling freezing temperatures and
30-mph gusts to hike the craggy alpine
terrain, take in spectacular views and
reflect on her next big moves.
“My favorite thing is to hike and
climb a mountain and then sit and
meditate after. That’s the reward,” says
the Russian-born Vyalitsyna. She
credits intense workouts (she’s also
an avid runner) and her daily
meditation practice with helping her
navigate the hike’s challenges.
Life as an in-demand model has
its own challenges, too. Since moving
to New York City at age 15—after
she signed with a modeling agency in
Russia—the 28-year-old has been
working practically nonstop, booking
major campaigns for everyone
from Chanel to Chloé and appearing
in the Sports Illustrated swimsuit
edition for 10 years running. Last year
she made her acting debut in Lullaby,
a film directed by Andrew Levitas, and
appeared as a coach on the second
season of The Face, Oxygen’s modeling
competition show. The TV experience
ignited her interest in mentoring
young women—something she wishes
she’d been able to benefit from at
the start of her own career. “When
I came to America, I was alone, I
didn’t have my parents with me, I didn’t
speak a word of English,” she says.
Vyalitsyna recently began
volunteering with Step Up, a nonprofit
that pairs high school–age girls
with mentors. “You go and talk to these
girls once a month about how to
deal with insecurities, become more
confident and reach for your dreams.
It’s the coolest thing I’ve ever done.”
She also traveled to Zambia with
(RED) to volunteer at an all-girls school.
Vyalitsyna now works as a celebrity
ambassador for the organization to raise
funds for the fight against HIV/AIDS.
“When I first started working with them,
I said, ‘How can I make a difference?
I’m just a model.’ But they changed my
mentality. Every single person is part
of the puzzle,” she says. It’s a message she
hopes to spread even more in the future.
“I’m really happy with where I am in my
life,” she says. “I want to share that by
contributing to the world and making it a
better place.” Now, that’s model behavior.
—Sara Gaynes Levy
Learn more about Vyalitsyna’s wellness routine at Self.com/go/annev.
“I FEEL AT PEACE
WHEN I’M OUT AND
ACTIVE IN NATURE—
IT’S THE BEST
VACATION EVER.”
THE FINAL PUSH
Sporty pieces enter new territory
with fresh design details, like buckles
on a vest and ankle zips on fitted
cargoes. “I usually wear convertible
pants when I hike,” Vyalitsyna says.
“These are a chic update.”
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ON
TOP
OF
HER
STRONGER, FASTER AND MORE
DETERMINED THAN EVER, TENNIS
STAR CAROLINE WOZNIACKI
IS READY FOR A BREAKTHROUGH.
BY ERIN BRIED
This month, Caroline Wozniacki will fly from her home in Monaco
to Australia in an attempt to fulfill her wildest dream: “I want to win
a grand slam,” she says. Now, more than at any other time in her
career, the 24-year-old Dane is poised to do it. She’s fine-tuned her
trademark backhand with the help of her coach (and dad), Piotr, and
trainer, Przemyslaw Piotrowicz. She has the support of her tennis
powerhouse friends, including Serena Williams and Novak Djokovic.
And she is in the best shape of her life, both physically and mentally.
“That’s one of my strongest points,” she says. “No matter the score, I
always fight until the end. I never give up.”
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FEELING BRIGHT
“I’ve always been strong,
but I’ve stepped up
my fitness even more,”
Wozniacki says.
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love it. I know it’s going to burn, but
my abs will look amazing.” She also
occasionally boxed (and still does). “It’s
fun to mix things up. Boxing is great for
tennis, because it also requires strong
arms, a strong core, fast legs and quick
reaction time,” she says. “Plus, if you
have a bad day, it’s a great way to get out
aggression. You feel so much better
afterward.” And if ever she found
herself low on motivation, she’d think
of Williams, Maria Sharapova and all
the up-and-comers she’s yet to face.
“It’s hard when it’s raining, dark or
cold, but knowing my competitors are
out there working hard makes me want
to do it, too. I hate losing,” she says. “I
just think how much I want to win that
trophy. It’s the best feeling in the world.
Even if no one ever watched tennis, I’d
still be out there, after that trophy.”
On November 2, her hard work
paid off. She finished the marathon in
three hours and 26 minutes,
maintaining a 7:53-mile pace and,
more important, discovering that she’s
stronger than she knew. “I’ve learned so
much about myself this year,” she says.
“You’ll have amazing moments and
“ YOU’LL HAVE AMAZING MOMENTS
AND TOUGH ONES, BUT THE
TOUGH ONES WILL ONLY MAKE
YOU WORK HARDER.”
her usual five hours on the court,
working on her technique and speed.
On most days, she followed her tennis
practice with a 4- to 18-mile run
outside. “The hardest part is to just step
out the door,” she says. “But once you’ve
done the first two steps, everything
suddenly gets easier.” On the days she
wasn’t running (or in the middle of
a tournament), she’d hit the gym for a
90-minute workout to strengthen her
legs, back and core. “Having a strong
core makes everything easier,” she says.
“Every movement comes from the
core: hitting, running, everything.” Of
her ab work, she says, “I hate it, but I
tough ones, but the tough ones will only
make you work harder. You may not see
that at the time, but you learn how strong
you really are.” She also learned about
the depth of her friendship: Williams
was waiting for her at the finish line. “Is
it normal to cry when someone finishes a
marathon?” Williams tweeted. “So
proud of you caro”.
Last year also taught Wozniacki
to take every day one step at a time.
“You never know what’s going to happen
tomorrow. So when you’re in a great
moment, and it feels amazing, just
cherish it,” she says. “Those are the
most important moments of your life.”
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victory at the Australian Open, the first
grand slam tournament of 2015,
could usher in a triumphant new era for
Wozniacki, who spent 2014 showing us
not only how hard she can play but also
how strong, centered and optimistic she
can remain, even during trying times.
“Honestly, 2014 was a very up-and-down
year,” she says. “There’s been big
happiness, and sadness as well.” The
joyful parts were plentiful: making it
to the final round of the U.S. Open,
earning $3.4 million in prize money
and scoring a front-row seat at New
York Fashion Week. As for the sadness,
she’s referring to a very public breakup
with her fiancé, golfer Rory McIlroy,
who suddenly ended their three-year
relationship just days after their
wedding invitations were mailed. “It
came as a bit of a shock,” Wozniacki
says, sounding remarkably even-keeled.
“But everything happens for a reason.”
The period that followed began what
Wozniacki describes as “a hard time.”
In her first postbreakup match at the
French Open, she was ousted in the first
round. But at the same time she lost a
fiancé, she strengthened a friendship.
“When Serena [Williams] heard about
the breakup, she kept calling me, but I
didn’t pick up. I didn’t even want to look
at my phone,” says Wozniacki. “Then
she texted me: ‘If you do not pick up
now, I’m going to fly to you, and if you
don’t open your door, I’m going to kick
it open and I’m going to see you.’ So,
I picked up,” says Wozniacki, laughing.
“I flew straight to Miami, and we had
a great time together. She’s an amazing
friend and an inspiration to me.” Three
months later, with a healed heart and
renewed focus on taking on the
competition, Wozniacki faced Williams
in the finals of the U.S. Open, where
Wozniacki came in second place.
“You owe drinks later,” Wozniacki told
her friend in a postmatch interview,
and sure enough, that evening,
Williams Instagrammed a pic of the
pair out on the town.
Last year, Wozniacki also began
a challenging new physical endeavor:
training for the New York City
marathon. Tennis players are known
for their speed and agility, and
Wozniacki, especially, for her quick
on-court pivots. “I’m good at
anticipating where the ball is coming,”
she says. Critics worried that running
a 26.2-mile race, and the training
involved, would hurt her game, but
Wozniacki persisted. “I’m a tennis
player first, but marathon training has
been really great,” she says. “I’ve
been able to clear my head when I’m
running, and I’ve had something to
be passionate about outside of tennis.”
Wozniacki’s training leading up to
the race was intense even by her
standards. Seven days a week, she spent
ADVANTAGE
WOZNIACKI
“When you have a
passion for something,
it makes it a whole
lot easier,” she says.
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ACING IT
“I get a little nervous
before every match,”
Wozniacki says, “but
those butterflies go
away once I’m in it.”
DRESS AND SNEAKERS
Adidas by Stella McCartney
SOCKS Adidas
“NO MATTER THE
SCORE, I ALWAYS FIGHT
UNTIL THE END.
I NEVER GIVE UP.”
GET YOUR MIND IN THE GAME
In addition to power, strength and speed, tennis requires an incredible amount
of concentration: To be great, you must anticipate every shot and strategize
on every return. “We’re so used to hitting balls for hours and hours every day,”
Wozniacki says, “but focusing on every point in the match is what’s really tiring.”
Here’s how she trains her mind to stay sharp.
TUNE OUT THE DOUBTS “I have to have
music in my ears when I run,” she says. She
also plugs in her headphones before big
matches to help calm her nerves and shut out
noise. “It depends on my mood, but I listen
to a lot of Rihanna and Bruno Mars.”
DO IT FOR SOMEONE ELSE By running a
marathon as a Team for Kids ambassador,
Wozniacki raised more than $83,000 to help
fund running programs for underprivileged
kids who’d otherwise have limited access to
organized fitness activities. “I knew if I did it
for charity, I’d actually go through with it,” she
says. “Sports have been such a huge part of my
life. They’ve done so much for me that I want to
inspire kids to get into them, too.”
DON’T WORRY ABOUT PROVING
YOURSELF “I play tennis because I love
to play,” she says. “I don’t have anything to
prove to anyone else. The only one I have to
prove anything to is myself. If I’m on the court
and giving it my all, that’s all that matters.”
STAY POSITIVE “2014 was a year of learning,”
she says. As for 2015, “It’s looking bright.
I’m pleased with how I’ve been playing, and
I’m happy. Hard work pays off.”
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ENVISION YOUR NEXT WIN “When I hit
a wall, I just think about what I have in
front of me: the next grand slam, the next
tournament,” Wozniacki says.
CAROLINE’S
HEELS TO THE
HEAVENS
Lie faceup, legs straight up
and together, feet flexed,
arms at sides, palms down.
Lift hips off floor as you
pulse heels toward ceiling.
DIAGONAL
LEG LIFT
Lie faceup, legs straight up,
feet flexed, arms extended
out to sides, palms down.
Keep legs straight as you
lower them 30 degrees and
to left. Return to start;
repeat on right side.
ACCORDION
CRUNCH
MINUTE
WORKOUT
This do-anywhere workout, Wozniacki’s
go-to when she’s short on time, will sculpt and
strengthen your entire body, especially your abs,
legs and butt. “It’s a high-intensity, low-rest
routine that will keep your body guessing, make
you sweat and ensure you get the most out
of every minute,” says her trainer, Przemyslaw
Piotrowicz. In other words, it’s going to burn,
but it’s also going to be worth it.
forms a V shape. Keeping
arms straight and parallel to
floor, pulse hands up and
down in small movements.
minutes
ABS
Do each move for
30 seconds, then repeat the
entire sequence.
V PULSE
Lie faceup, feet together
and arms at sides, and bring
shoulders and feet 30
degrees off floor so body
SIDE V-UP
Lie on left side, legs at a
45-degree angle in front of
hips, left forearm on floor,
perpendicular to torso, right
hand behind head,
supporting neck. Keep legs
straight as you raise legs
and torso toward each other
until left shoulder comes off
floor. Return to start.
Continue for 30 seconds.
Switch sides; repeat.
Lie faceup, hands behind
head. Bend knees to
chest and crunch upper
body until shoulders come
off floor. Hold shoulders and
feet off floor as you slowly
extend legs and upper body.
Return to start; repeat.
BUTTERFLY
SIT-UP
Lie faceup, hands behind
head, soles together,
tucked as close to body as
possible, knees out to sides.
Slowly sit up, then lower to
start. Repeat.
minutes
LEGS
Do 1 set of lunges and
1 set of squats, then
rest for 10 seconds.
Repeat twice.
WALKING LUNGE
Stand with feet hip-width
apart, hands on hips. Lunge
right foot forward, lowering
body until right thigh is
parallel to floor and left knee
almost touches floor.
(Make sure right knee does
not extend past toes.)
Lunge left foot forward. Do
10 lunges on each side.
JUMP SQUAT
Stand with feet hip-width
apart, arms extended and
back straight. Squat, making
sure knees don’t extend
past toes. When knees
reach 90 degrees, explode
upward. Do 20 reps.
TABLETOP SIDE
TOUCH
Lie faceup, hands behind
head, legs up, knees
together and bent 90
degrees, ankles together.
Slowly lower knees to left
side and touch floor. Return
to start; repeat on right side.
LEG CIRCLE
Lie faceup, hands
behind head, legs lifted
30 degrees off floor. Make
large clockwise circles
with each leg, ensuring that
when one is at the top
of a circle, the other is at
the bottom. Continue
for 15 seconds, then repeat
counterclockwise.
TOE TOUCH
Lie faceup, legs straight
up, feet flexed. Reach
hands to toes, bringing
shoulders off floor with each
rep. Return to start; repeat.
minutes
CARDIO
You can do this outside
or on a treadmill.
WARM-UP
Walk at a brisk pace for
1 minute, then jog
at a moderate pace for
2 minutes.
INTERVALS
For the next 12 minutes,
alternate 30 seconds of
jogging at a moderate
pace with 30 seconds of
sprinting. On a scale
of 1 to 10, where 1 is
minimal effort and 10 is all
you’ve got, aim for a
5 on your jog and an 8 on
your sprint.
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ARTWORK BY
KYLE BEAN
PHOTOGRAPHED BY
AARON TILLEY
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Imagine a life where
your dreams come first;
where that trip you
want to take, that half
marathon you hope
to run, that career move
you intend to pursue
take priority over your
errands, email and
other daily obligations.
Now you can actually
make it happen—all of
it. By following our
six-step plan and signing
up for our 21-day Time
Makeover at Self.com,
you’ll not only become
more productive but also
free up extra hours to
fill with what makes you
happiest. Because finding
time to do what you
love should be your first
priority, not last.
BEAT THE CLOCK
Sixty-seven percent of you
say your to-do list is a major
source of stress or guilt,
according to a Self.com poll.
1
STEP
UNDERSTAND
THE CRUNCH
According to our Self.com poll, 70 percent of you don’t have enough hours in the day to do
what’s needed. Learn why you feel so strapped for time—and how you can change it.
The moment your feet hit the floor every morning,
you start going and don’t stop again until your
head hits the pillow. How have our days come to feel
so astonishingly insufficient?
There are obvious time traps: long work hours
(47 a week on average), long commutes (25 minutes
each way) and our national no-vacation culture. But
there are sneakier ones, too. The less time we have,
the more we multitask, which only compounds
the crunch. Thanks to the digital revolution and
our endless effort to stay on top of things, we now
absorb 174 newspapers’ worth of information a day.
In fact, 83 percent of you don’t let an hour go by
without checking your phone. At meals, on walks,
in bed, we fill every moment of stillness.
“These constant pings trigger the brain’s reward
system, offering a tiny hit of pleasure without
creating lasting happiness,” says Christine Carter,
2
TRUST IN
STEP
THE
PAYOFF
Fifty-one percent of you say you
feel guilty when you take even
just a few minutes for yourself on
any given day. “It’s not indulgent
to pursue joy,” Carter says. “On
the contrary, it’s the key to life.”
Here’s proof that if you do make
time to do what you love, great
things will happen.
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Ph.D., sociologist and author of The Sweet Spot. All
that swiping steals our hours even after we’ve powered
down. “The information overload makes us less
efficient and more stressed, resulting in even more
time slip,” she says. The scarcer our free time gets,
the more precious it becomes, which paradoxically
makes every minute of it less satisfying, too.
Life does not have to be this way. “When we look
back at our lives, no one says, ‘It was so amazing—
I got to the end of my inbox!’” Carter says. “We must
constantly remind ourselves of what really matters
and live accordingly.” The good news? You already
know the answers. (At the top: Thirty-two percent of
you want to travel more.) Now get out of that defensive
crouch and do something about it. Adds Carter,
“You can play offense against your biggest time traps.
When you do, you’ll feel better.” It’s never too late
to start living life on your own terms—and time.
benefits go beyond flat abs:
People who spend their leisure
time doing physical activity raise
their life expectancy by up to 4.5
years, according to a study by
the National Institutes of Health.
YOU’LL BE HAPPIER
The 16 percent of you who dream
of being a better friend, partner
or daughter are on to something.
“The single best predictor of health
and happiness is the breadth and
depth of our connections to other
human beings,” Carter says. As for
the third of you who want to travel
more? One study found that 59
percent of travelers saw a major
drop in stress as soon as they left
for vacation.
YOU’LL LIVE LONGER
YOU’LL GET A RAISE
When you find a chunk of
unexpected free time, 17 percent
of you use it to exercise. The
Seventy-five percent of you say
you’d opt for a $7,300 raise (an
extra $20 a day per year) over a
free hour to yourself each day.
But choosing that hour could
get you the raise anyway. Taking
lunch outside, a walk, even a
full-on vacation makes you a more
energetic and engaged employee,
according to Charlotte Fritz,
assistant professor of industrial
and organizational psychology
at Portland State University
in Oregon. And the better you
perform, the more likely you are
to land a promotion.
YOU’LL FIND MEANING
Thirteen percent of you dream of
having enough free time to learn to
do something new (or better), like
cook, play guitar or draw. Frivolous?
Hardly. Pursuing creative passions
not only boosts confidence and
self-esteem but also makes you
feel your life is more meaningful,
according to a 2014 study in
BMJ Open. In other words, it makes
all your hard work worth it.
21-DAY TIME MAKEOVER
78%
of you say you
don’t have time
to pursue your
true passions.
3
STEP
KNOW
WHERE
YOUR TIME
GOES
“Keeping a time diary makes you more aware of how you
spend your hours and which parts of your schedule
are working against you,” says Julie Gray, a holistic time
coach in Washington, D.C. Two busy women give it a try.
The master multitasker
SARAH ROBB O’HAGAN 42, president of Equinox, is based in New York City, where she oversees
13,000 employees and 73 clubs in three countries, plus Soul Cycle, Blink Fitness and Pure Yoga.
I TRY TO
MAKE
THE MOST
OUT OF
EVERY
MOMENT.”
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5:13 Wake up. I get into
workout clothes before I check
my email and Twitter.
5:45
Work out. I run to the gym so
that I can skip my warm-up.
6:53 Run home, shower.
I’ve already thought through
my outfit in my head.
7:45
Scream, “Everyone in the car!”
My husband and kids (ages 6,
8 and 10) take me to the train.
7:54 Train to city. I send
email when I have connectivity
and read business reports
when I don’t.
8:40 Cab to
work. Breakfast at Starbucks
for coffee and oatmeal. The
energy lasts me all morning.
9:00 Back-to-back
meetings. I never multitask in
them, because then I miss
things and that wastes time.
11:50 Meetings end. Check
email and Twitter. NOON
Meeting. I switch between my
chair and exercise ball—it
helps with my energy.
1:00
Working lunch: a chicken
salad and coconut water,
which satisfies my sweet tooth.
2:00 Another meeting, but
folks are late, so I check email.
I use little pockets of time
whenever they come.
3:00
Conference call. I hear a pitch.
Not interested, so I end it
early—otherwise, it’s a waste
of time for both of us. Drive on.
4:00 Candidate interview.
Signing top talent takes time.
4:45 Skim email. I delete
everything that doesn’t require
a reply.
5:00 Last meeting.
6:00 Bolt for the train. It’s
my priority to get home before
my kids go to bed.
7:30
Home! The best moment of my
day is when my kids jump on
me. As I eat, everyone tells me
about their day.
8:30 Put
kids to bed. Then finish email
and write tomorrow’s to-do list.
10:00 Bedtime! I’m sharper
on seven hours of sleep.
HER TAKE
When I’m working, I maximize every moment so
that when I do get downtime with my family, I can
really enjoy it. But I miss relaxing. I love watching
movies but just don’t have time for them. Even
on flights, I glance longingly at anyone watching
a movie while I work on my laptop.
EXPERT TAKE
Delegating her social media could save Sarah
time. It’s also hard to make your next day’s
to-do list at night, when you’re exhausted. Doing
it before leaving work would give her closure,
helping her focus on herself and family at home.
21-DAY TIME MAKEOVER
The committed caretaker
TOSHA ROGERS, M.D. 39, ob/gyn, is owner of Atlanta Premier Ob/Gyn Associates, where she
sees 30 patients a day, delivers about 35 babies a month and employs a full-time staff of three.
I NEVER
RUSH.
I JUST
TRY
TO BE
WORTH
THE
WAIT.”
5:00 Wake up. I keep my
phone on the pillow next to me
and check my email and bank
accounts. If something needs
my attention, I can get to it first
thing.
5:15 Get dressed—I
try to look my best. My beauty
routine gives me peace. I can
do Tosha for this one hour
before I turn into Dr. Rogers.
6:45 Drop my Maltese at
doggie day care, then make
rounds on my patients at the
hospital.
8:45 Breakfast.
I call in my smoothie order and
try to keep cash in my car so
that I can jump the line when
I get there.
9:00 Office
appointments. I never rush.
I just try to be worth the wait.
12:30 Deliver a baby. Had
I gotten stuck in traffic on the
way, I could’ve called another
doctor. Knowing that I have
backup is comforting.
I try to grab bites of lunch
between patients, but usually
my food gets cold.
4:45
Return professional calls,
order prescriptions.
5:15
Return personal calls and
texts—the first time I allow
myself to decompress for
a second.
6:00 Check
on patients at the hospital.
Between writing notes, I’ll
check Facebook, Instagram
and email to break up the
monotony. Nothing takes
your mind off a 14-hour
workday like a dancing cat.
7:30 Pick up dog and
take her for a walk. 8:15
Deliver another baby. Evening
deliveries are less stressful,
because I have no other
patients waiting, just personal
stuff. 10:30 Home, shower,
eat takeout, climb into bed
and review patients’ charts.
MIDNIGHT Call hospital
to check on patients. Before I
doze off, I want to know exactly
where they are.
12:15
Sleep. Five hours is all I need.
HER TAKE
I stay on track because I’m always prepared.
Before I meet with any patient, I’m already up to
speed, which makes everything move faster.
I love fine dining, but food just can’t be a priority
in my life. Sometimes I even skip dinner.
EXPERT TAKE
Tosha is practiced at keeping a tight schedule,
blocking off time for not only her patients but
also her morning ritual. But if she delegated
a few tasks, like dropping off her pup, she could
free up more time for meals.
2:00 Office appointments.
HOW A PERFECT DAY LOOKS
Everyone’s version is different, but a recent study in the Journal of Economic
Psychology found that to optimize your happiness, you should prioritize certain
activities. “It’s not advisable to run around with a stopwatch,” says researcher
Christian Kroll. “But squeezing in a ‘perfect day’ may help you recharge your
batteries.” Aside from eight hours of sleep, here are six key elements. (“Intimate
relations?” Think sex, cuddling, talking...and whatever else it means to you!)
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MINUTES
MINUTES
MINUTES
MINUTES
MINUTES
MINUTES
RELAX
EXERCISE
SOCIALIZE
WITH FRIENDS
EAT
MEDITATE
INTIMATE
RELATIONS
For more time diaries of successful women, visit Self.com.
FIND EXTRA HOURS
Seventy-two percent of you say you have one hour or less
to yourself each day. Double that amount with these genius
time hacks. They’ll help you ratchet up your energy and
efficiency, so you can do more of your musts in less time.
KEEP A “15-MINUTE” LIST
Jot down all the niggling tasks you could complete quickly, like writing a thank-you card or
picking up your dry cleaning, and knock one off when you have an unexpected break or feel
procrastination’s pull. “Trying to remember all those little to-dos creates anxiety,” says Carson
Tate, author of Work Simply. Crossing them off frees you up for more challenging projects.
3+3
MEALS
SNACKS
Eat light and often (small meals
plus snacks) to keep a steady
supply of glucose to the brain,
boosting productivity. Opt for
foods that mix fiber, protein and
fat, like yogurt and granola
or an apple with almond butter.
WORK FROM OM
People who meditate stay on task longer and
report less fatigue in high-stress work environments,
according to one study. Being fully present in
whatever you’re doing maximizes efficiency. Start
by sitting quietly for 10 minutes every morning,
then work your way up to a half hour.
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20
MINUTES
4
STEP
That’s how long it takes
for you to resume your train
of thought after clicking
on an email. Turn off your
notifications and set email
rules to automatically sort,
forward or delete messages.
In minutes, that’s the work-to-break ratio
employed by the most productive people,
according to a recent study by Desk
Time, a time-tracking app. “Longer, more
frequent breaks lead to more focused
work,” notes researcher Julia Gifford.
SOURCES: 20 MINUTES: CARSON TATE, AUTHOR OF WORK SIMPLY. WORK FROM OM: ALFRED KASZNIAK, PH.D., PROFESSOR OF PSYCHOLOGY
AT THE UNIVERSITY OF ARIZONA. 3+3: JACK GROPPEL, PH.D., COFOUNDER OF THE HUMAN PERFORMANCE INSTITUTE IN ORLANDO, FLORIDA.
5
STEP
DREAM
BIG
“Too many people let their lives be dictated by
what’s flying at them,” says Terry Monaghan,
founder of Time Triage. Instead, envision what
you’d do if time weren’t an issue. Here, a few
inspiring answers from SELF readers.
“I’d visit impoverished nations and
give what I could to make other people’s
lives better, whether it’s donating
soccer balls, teaching CPR or building houses.”
—Vilay Senthep, 31, civil servant, Providence, Rhode Island
“I’d hike the entire Appalachian trail to
prove to myself how strong I am.”
—Kate Glorioso, 37, certified and
registered medical assistant, Baltimore
“I’d study culinary arts all over the world—
rolling pastry in France, sautéing freshly
plucked ingredients in Thailand. I’d
become the best personal chef around!”
—Piper Harris, 36, personal chef, Canton, Georgia
“I’d run a marathon in every country so that
I could see all the sights on foot.”
—Gia Alvarez, 34, running coach and mother of twins, New York City
“I’d spend every extra second with those I love.
I lost my brother when he was only
18, so I really know how precious time is.”
—Kayla Taylor, 25, Internet banking administrator,
Pine Bluff, Arizona
21-DAY TIME MAKEOVER
6
DO MORE OF
STEP
WHAT YOU LOVE
Once you’ve freed up a few extra hours, it takes discipline to
fill them thoughtfully. Start by looking at your 2015 calendar
and block off all your vacation time for the year. “If you
don’t schedule time for yourself, you’ll end up living life
by default, constantly reacting to what’s important to
everyone else rather than what’s important to you,” says
Monaghan. Then decide on your top three priorities for
the year—say, doing great work, nurturing yourself and your
relationships and seeing the world. “Once you get
clear on your goals, it becomes much easier to say no
to things that don’t serve them,” says holistic time coach
Julie Gray. “It’s a mind-set shift—and a matter of
believing that your priorities come first.”
NOW MAKE
IT STICK!
Join us at Self.com for our free 21-day Time
Makeover. Together, we can end the time crunch.
GET WITH
THE PROGRAM
Visit Self.com and sign up for
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your time traps, developed
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Profound Impact Coaching.
Take a quiz to learn what type
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SHARE YOUR
SUCCESS
We want to know where your
dreams take you! Instagram
your favorite moments
or tweet us a pic @SELF
magazine using the hashtag
#TimeForMyself. We’ll repost
and create a gallery of our
top picks. Healthy habits
are highly contagious within
social networks, according
to a 2013 study in Circulation.
So let’s start a movement
to enjoy the time of our lives!
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TRYING A NEW LIPSTICK OR CHANGING UP
YOUR HAIRSTYLE IS ONE OF THE EASIEST
TRANSFORMATIONS YOU CAN MAKE. BUT AS
TATIANA BONCOMPAGNI FOUND, SMALL
TWEAKS CAN HAVE LONG-LASTING EFFECTS.
It was the summer of my discontent. I spent all of
August in our family’s house in upstate New York,
working on my third novel and caring for our three
young children, dog and vegetable patch. I counted
out my days in the number of miles I ran, the pages
I wrote and the hours I logged playing Marco Polo
with the kids in the pool. Most nights I’d cook dinner
for my husband and kids—typically something fresh
from the garden—and fall asleep to the sounds of
nature outside my bedroom window. I should have
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been happy, but I wasn’t. Worse, I didn’t know why
or what I could do about it.
After Labor Day, we returned to our busy city
lives: school runs, dinners with friends, deadlines
galore. The scramble to fit it all in—work, family,
thrice-weekly cardio sculpt classes—was enough to
distract me from the malaise that had dogged me
through those hot summer months. I had no time to
ruminate or wallow in self-doubt. And so I felt fine:
not great, but good enough.
TOM SCHIRMACHER/ART DEPARTMENT
THE
POWER
OF
BEAUTY
PRETTY
POSITIVE
A bold lipstick can
give you an instant
confidence boost.
LIPSTICK L’Oréal Paris
Infallible Pro-Last
Color in Perpetual Apricot,
$13; Drugstore.com
Then, one night in bed, my husband showed me
a video he’d taken of me playing with the children
on the lawn, and I nearly gasped. The woman on the
screen looked old—middle-aged at least—and tired.
Her shoulder-length hair was so dark, almost black.
Was that really what I looked like? And if so, why
hadn’t I noticed these changes before?
“We all have tricks when we look in the mirror,”
says Patricia Wexler, M.D., a dermatologist in New
York City. “You tilt your head one way. You focus on
one thing and not something else. It’s a protective
mechanism. But when you look at a picture, it’s very
objective.” In other words: That lady on the lawn was
me—the version of myself I didn’t want to see—and
she was in desperate need of a makeover.
CHANGING MY LOOK
I made an appointment with Sharon Dorram, a
highly sought-after haircolorist on the Upper East
Side. Rushing from the gym to Dorram’s jewel box
of a salon, I presented her with a handful of magazine clippings, mostly featuring Gisele Bündchen’s
IT TOOK FINDING
MY LOOK FOR ME TO
FIND MY VOICE. “I’M
NOT HAPPY,” IT SAID.
“I WANT A CHANGE.”
sun-kissed waves and Behati Prinsloo’s golden side
braid. Dorram studied them while we discussed my
lifestyle (busy) and past color experiences (disastrous). “Your hair is very, very dark,” Dorram said.
“We can soften your whole look and create movement and thickness.” We devised a game plan: Lift
my base color two shades, then weave in caramel
and honey highlights, creating a look that would
be natural and low on maintenance but still give
me the sense of transformation I craved. “Radical
change isn’t for everyone,” Dorram said.
When I emerged from the salon 2½ hours later
with freshly colored hair and a sleek new cut, I felt
like a different person. And, as became evident in
the weeks to come, that was only the beginning.
The jeans-and-sweater uniform I’d adopted for the
sake of practicality suddenly felt like a cop-out. I
craved pieces that would make me feel polished and
pulled together, so I invested in a few silk shirts, a
pair of knee-high designer boots and a body-con
date-night dress.
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Next was my makeup, which had remained
unchanged since my 2003 nuptials. (I’m speaking
literally here: I was still using the same tube of
Chanel Tempt lipstick I’d worn on my wedding
day.) I’d given up wearing makeup when I went
freelance—it seemed like a waste of time, not to
mention good mascara, when the only people who
were going to see me were my husband and infant.
Now I wanted to look good for myself, even if all I was
doing that day was folding laundry and helping with
homework. I bought a sheer foundation, a brighter
pink blush and a matte red lipstick. And—this was
key—I actually used them instead of letting them
gather dust in the medicine cabinet.
“Makeup isn’t a routine. It’s a part of your life and
your identity, so it’s totally normal to want it to evolve
as you do,” says makeup artist Charlotte Tilbury. “My
motto is, ‘Give a woman the right makeup and she
can conquer the world.’”
I wasn’t quite ready to launch a global takeover,
but I was excited for a night on the town. My husband
and I had been invited to a friend’s birthday party at
a cool restaurant downtown, and for the first time
in years, I didn’t try to worm out of it. I put on my
new dress, blew out my hair and applied a smoky eye.
At the party, I drank champagne, nibbled on hors
d’oeuvres and caught up with a long-lost friend. In
the taxi on the way home, I was scrolling through my
husband’s photos from the night when, once again,
I was surprised by my own image. This girl looked
more like the real me, the one I saw in my mind’s
eye: sexy, fun and confident.
“Looks do matter,” says Vivian Diller, Ph.D., a
Manhattan psychologist and the author of Face It:
What Women Really Feel as Their Looks Change.
“They are central to a woman’s identity, even if they
aren’t at the forefront.”
I didn’t need a psych degree to know that over the
past 10 years—seemingly in the blink of an eye—I
had given myself over to motherhood and marriage.
Sure, I wrote novels and newspaper articles, but not
as prolifically as I wanted. Most of my days were
spent shopping for groceries and scraping gunk
off my kitchen floor. I sometimes felt like I had
the best of both worlds, being able to work from
home and raise my children, but at other times I
felt incredibly frustrated. This wasn’t the life I’d
envisioned for myself when I was 25 and chose to
stay in New York to marry the man of my dreams
instead of moving to Washington, D.C., for a job
that could have led to bigger things. At the time, I’d
realized I was choosing love over career, but what I
hadn’t banked on was how long it would take me to
shake the feeling that I’d shortchanged myself. Or
that, many years and children later, I would still feel
only somewhat satisfied with all that I had (which,
to be fair, was plenty).
CHANGING MY LIFE
That spring, buoyed by my new look, I challenged
myself to try things that were out of my comfort
zone, like scuba diving while on vacation in Thailand
and going downhill skiing in upstate New York. I’d
learned how to ski as a teenager, but not well or
with much pleasure. I didn’t like the cold, the speed
or the potential for crashing and injuring myself
(or someone else). But I was tired of missing out
on the fun. So the next time my husband took the
kids skiing, I came along. Going up on the ski lift
for the first time, I was so terrified I could barely
speak, but by the end of the day I was making turns
without careening off piste or into other skiers. More
important, I was actually enjoying myself.
My next step was learning how to drive again.
I’d been in a car accident in my teens, then had
another one in a dune buggy while on vacation.
Ever since that second accident, I’d been plagued
with nightmares about being behind the wheel of a
car I couldn’t control, and had developed an acute
fear of driving. It wasn’t a problem in the city, where
there’s plenty of public transport and taxis, but
in the country I often felt limited, unable to run
errands on my own, dependent on others to take me
places. Determined, I got back in the driver’s seat
and managed to drive to a tennis lesson and return
home without wrecking the car. The next time was
easier, as was the time after that.
LEVI BROWN/TRUNK ARCHIVE
COMING FULL CIRCLE
And to think, it all started with highlights. While
beauty makeovers can’t fix life’s bigger problems,
they can act as powerful catalysts. “The whole notion
of psychology is that the most important or deep
change comes from within, but that doesn’t mean
that there isn’t a circular loop,” says Diller. “Seeing
your hair look more vital can trigger changes within
you that indicate you have more to say, more to learn
and more life to live.”
I was feeling better about myself, which helped
me overcome fears that had been holding me back
in one way or another. That, in turn, made me feel
empowered enough to take a stand when my husband and I got into an argument about our plans for
the upcoming summer. He thought the kids would
benefit from spending their entire break out of the
city, breathing fresh air and playing outdoors at our
house upstate—with me watching them. I thought I
would go crazy keeping three kids occupied, unable
to write, unable to see my friends. The old me might
have capitulated to my husband’s wishes and spent
the rest of my summer feeling angry and resentful.
The new me stood her ground.
You could say that it took finding my look for
me to find my voice. “I’m not happy,” BEAUTY > 100
MAKE A
CHANGE WORK
FOR YOU
IDENTIFY WHAT YOU WANT TO DO
Figure out what you’d like to tweak
about your appearance and be ready
to articulate it. “You need to spend
some mirror time” before you go in
for an appointment, says Dendy
Engelman, M.D., a dermatologic
surgeon in New York City. Look at
your reflection. What’s the first
thing you see that you don’t like?
THINK ABOUT HOW YOU
SEE YOURSELF
Now close your eyes and envision
how you’d like to look in your mind’s
eye. What are the differences between
that image and the one you see
in the mirror? “I call it the moment of
truth—when what you see in your
head is not matching what you see
in the mirror. We try to make those
two things align,” says Dr. Engelman.
START SMALL
If you’re nervous about change, begin
with your makeup, which doesn’t
require as much commitment as, say,
a new haircolor, makeup artist
Carmindy says. If your hair is what’s
bothering you, try going gradually
from point A to B. “Minor tweaking
with haircolor can be the answer,”
says NYC-based haircolorist Marie
Robinson. You can always try
something more radical the next time.
PLAN FOR THE FUTURE
Talk to your hairstylist about how
you can manage your hair in between
appointments—with a shampoo
to help lock in color, for example—
and ask your derm to create a
six-month to two-year plan, says
Elizabeth Tanzi, M.D., a dermatologist
in Washington, D.C. You’ve done
the work to make a change—
now this is the key to keep your new
self looking and feeling great.
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INDULGE
VEG OUT!
Make 2015 the year you embrace your
greens. With these recipes, everything
from your favorite comfort food to your
go-to salad gets a delicious refresh.
RECIPES BY CARRIE PURCELL
Photographed by ANDREW PURCELL
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Hearty and healthy,
this roasted butternut
squash soup is loaded
with immune-boosting
vitamin A.
Ricotta and Asparagus
Pizza With Microgreens
SERVES 6
All-purpose flour for dusting
1 lb homemade pizza dough (recipe follows)
2 tbsp tomato paste
½ cup fresh ricotta
1 small bunch asparagus, thinly sliced
2 tbsp extra-virgin olive oil,
plus more for garnish
½ tsp kosher salt
½ tsp freshly ground black pepper
¼ cup grated Parmesan
1 cup assorted microgreens
or baby lettuces
1 tbsp white balsamic vinegar
Heat oven to 500°. On a lightly floured
surface, roll dough into a 12-inch
circle. Prick all over with a fork. Spread
tomato paste and ricotta evenly
over dough, leaving a ½-inch border
around the edge. Top with asparagus
and drizzle with olive oil, salt and
pepper. Sprinkle Parmesan all over,
including crust. Bake on a pizza
stone until crust is golden brown, 12 to
16 minutes. Cool 2 minutes; top with
microgreens and drizzle with vinegar and
more olive oil, if desired.
HOMEMADE PIZZA DOUGH
In a small bowl, combine 1 packet ( ¼ oz)
active dry yeast, ¾ cup warm water and 1
tbsp honey; stir. Let sit until foamy, about
5 minutes. In a large bowl, combine 2
cups bread flour and 1 tsp kosher salt.
Add yeast mixture and stir well. Add 2
tbsp olive oil and combine until a sticky
ball forms. Transfer to a lightly floured
surface and knead until smooth, about 5
minutes. Place dough in a large oiled
bowl and cover with plastic wrap. Let rise
in a warm area until doubled in size,
about 1 hour.
Roasted Butternut Squash
and Golden Beet Soup
SERVES 4
1 large butternut squash, peeled,
seeded and cut into ½-inch cubes
2 medium golden beets, greens removed,
scrubbed well and quartered
1 large yellow onion, coarsely chopped
3 garlic cloves, smashed
3 tbsp olive oil
SALAD DAYS
Watercress and
radicchio give this
dish a peppery kick.
2 cups low-sodium chicken
or vegetable broth
2 tsp kosher salt
½ tsp freshly ground black pepper,
plus more for garnish
Assorted garnishes, such as thinly sliced
candy-striped beets, sliced lemon
cucumbers, finely diced red onion and
Thai basil leaves
Heat oven to 400°. On a large rimmed
baking sheet, spread squash, beets,
onion and garlic in a single layer; toss
with olive oil. Roast until tender, 40 to
50 minutes. Let cool slightly, about
10 minutes. Transfer vegetables and any
accumulated juices to a blender or food
processor; add broth, salt and pepper.
Blend until smooth, thinning with 1 cup
hot water as necessary. Divide among
bowls and garnish as desired.
Watercress and Grapefruit
Salad With Grilled Shrimp
SERVES 4
6
2
2
2
1
¹/³
4
2
cups watercress, torn into pieces
cups shredded radicchio
grapefruit, peeled and sliced
cups grilled shrimp
cup crumbled goat cheese
cup extra-virgin olive oil
tbsp red wine vinegar
tsp Dijon mustard
tsp kosher salt
tsp freshly ground black pepper
cup toasted pepitas
½
½
½
In a large bowl, lightly toss watercress,
radicchio, grapefruit, shrimp and goat
cheese. In a smaller bowl, whisk together
olive oil, vinegar, mustard, salt and pepper.
Divide salad between plates and drizzle
with dressing; sprinkle with pepitas.
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JENNIFER LOPEZ
CONTINUED FROM 67
When you get into all that stuff and start
unraveling that puzzle, you start feeling a
little bit stronger. You start feeling more
empowered, and you think, I can do this.
I’m on my own and it’s not so bad. And
then there are moments where you’re
like, I’m lonely! I hate this! But that’s
the growth.”
Lopez is also exerting fresh control
over her career. She loved the artistic
freedom of working on an independent
film like The Boy Next Door. When she
began in movies 20 years ago, many
A-list stars got paid a lot of money to
do franchise films over which they had
very little creative control; movies often
either went big or went home. Lopez
never imagined then that the DIY film
renaissance of the past decade would
allow her to choose a script she believed
in, find a director, then star in and produce the movie. “People would have been
like, ‘Oh, a female-driven movie. I don’t
know if we want to do that,’” she says.
“But now we can just go do it ourselves.
All I have to do is bank on myself, which
I’m in the business of doing.”
The idea that The Boy Next Door
reversed the typical older man/younger
woman dynamic is also something that
interested her. “All the old clichés about
women need to be undone,” she says.
“Enough already. We’re in the other
position now. We are desirable older, we
can date younger guys and it’s not this
big taboo. Men have been doing this for
years, and it’s no big deal.”
The thing about Lopez, though, is
that she seems to be aging backward. Her
famed figure looks better than, well, ever.
In addition to her dancing, she credits
working out with Tracy Anderson with
making her leaner and more defined.
And Lopez feels like the inner work she’s
doing is also transforming her body. “I’m
concentrating on working on myself,
because I feel like when that’s intact,
then it’s easy to get to the gym,” she says.
Of course, eating well is a factor, too.
Lopez generally avoids bread and alcohol
but indulges her sweet tooth with a small
daily dose of chocolate. Before rehearsal,
she had a bowl of pasta for dinner in her
dressing room with Max and Emme. It’s
not something she’d normally eat at night,
but she needs that fuel to dance. “I’m
doing a little extra, so I need extra food.
If you don’t eat and then try to go dance,
you’ll get run-down.”
There’s little chance of that happening to Lopez—tonight or any other time.
Instead, she’s looking to the year ahead
as one that will define the woman she
hopes to become: a woman whose inner
tenacity matches her outer strength.
And though the hours she’s putting in
won’t get any shorter, she’s up for the
challenge—and the hard work. As she
says of her intense exercise regimen:
“It’s like I’m in training, and I’m getting
ready for the fight.”
would spend on child care. And we both
worried about how our kids would react
to the change. I told him that we’d worry
about my salary once I actually got a job
offer, and that the kids would benefit
from seeing me pursue my dreams. After
dusting off my résumé, I told everyone I
ran into that I was looking for work. My
husband realized I was serious and got on
board. In fact, I think seeing me like this,
energized and driven, reminded him of
the woman he’d originally fallen in love
with—the woman I’d become, again.
I was fortunate. Three months after
I started looking for a job, I found one
(here, at SELF). The day before my
job interview, I bought a crisp, white
blouse and pencil skirt, plus a statement
necklace—the kind of cool-girl piece I
used to admire from afar, wishing I led
the kind of life that necessitated such
accoutrements. I had my hair professionally blown out. The old me would have
called all that putting the cart before the
horse (first you land the job, then you go
shopping). But the new me knew better.
A new outfit and shiny hair wouldn’t
guarantee me an offer, but the confidence
boost they gave me that day may indeed
have sealed the deal.
I won’t say that it hasn’t been difficult
figuring out how to manage it all, and
that there haven’t been days I’ve longed
for the routine and predictability of my
old existence. But for the most part, I’m
happy—and proud of myself for finally
taking charge of my life.
In a story filled with irony, here’s my
favorite one of all: Those golden, Giseleinspired highlights are gone. I decided
they weren’t me after all. So I’m back to
being a brunette, with nary a trace of
honey or caramel in my hair. My life,
on the other hand, has undergone quite
a radical transformation. And I love the
way it looks.
THE POWER OF BEAUTY
CONTINUED FROM 95
it said. “I want a change.” It also may have
screamed at my husband, “I’m looking
for a job starting Monday!” Not my
finest moment, but going back to work—
prioritizing my professional ambitions,
which I’d back-burnered for so long, and
earning my own independent source of
income—was something I’d wanted to
do for a very long time. I’d just been too
afraid to admit it to myself until then.
My husband was supportive but dubious. He wasn’t sure I’d be able to find a job
that would pay enough to justify what we
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SKATE
WHY I...
By GRACIE GOLD, 19, defending U.S. Figure
Skating champion and Olympic bronze medalist
I want to nail
every jump—
every time,
no matter how
I’m feeling.”
Gold rehearses in
Los Angeles.
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MONTE ISOM
When I was 8, I went to a birthday party
at an ice rink. The other kids hung on to the
side of the rink, but I ventured out—just
to see if I could. I skated forward and
backward. It felt innate, somehow. I signed
up for skating lessons a few weeks later.
The way you learn the sport appealed to
my competitive side. You tackle the jumps
in order: Master one, then move on to
the next. Those milestones are motivating.
The single axel is first. Some people can’t
do it and quit. I landed my first single axel
at 9, a year after I started. Jumps have
come easily for me. But every time I learn
something, I want to work harder and take
on the next challenge.
I started winning local competitions
around Illinois, and my parents thought
that I might need more advanced coaching.
We began traveling between Springfield,
Illinois, and Chicago so that I could have
access to higher-level coaches. I thrived and
won my first international competition
when I was 16.
Now I’ve won the U.S. championships
and have an Olympic medal, but
competition is still a big motivator for
me. I put in three to four hours a day
on the ice, plus yoga and ballet every
week. Figure skating requires so much
body awareness: I have a split second
in the air to execute a jump, and I have to
be tuned in to every muscle. Being just
five degrees off can jeopardize the whole
jump. It’s also all about integration. I put
everything—the emotions, the breathing,
the dance, the jumps—together into
something that defines me.